Itgoesthud: Thanks brother. You're absolutely right. I had the same relative specs as netagurion. I was actually smaller.
Netagurion: I'm really sorry for your loss. I went through a nasty divorce 4 years ago when I was 54 and lost my identical twin brother during that time as well. And my 3 kids
decided they wanted nothing to do with me either. So I had some challenges as well, but not equivalent to losing a wife you love. But glass half full, I've been seeing my kids now on and off and they're coming around. Ok, regarding PE and filler. It's too much to unpack on these boards but I'm happy to talk to you personally. Texas did the same thing for me when I started filler and PE about 3 years ago. He had a wealth of info for me and I have modified it over time based on my own anatomy.
My specs starting off were about 4.25-4.5 X 3.75-4.0 BP. I reference a range because my measurements werer't the most accurate starting out. My stretched
Flaccid was so small I couldnt' use the RestoreX I bought for $500. It's still accumulating dust on my shelf. Fast forward, I've been using the Apex extender from Massive Novelties with a vacuum cup. And I've added vibration while stretching about 3 months ago. I also hang on occassion to add different stimulus. I use the Zen
Hanger system for that. Vaccum cup only. No noose. My anatomy doesn't allow for a noose. Unfortunately, my anatomy also doesn't allow me to pump which is gold standard for
Girth. But you should have one and see if it works for you. Massive Novelties also sells a pump. It should have a manual hand pump with pressure gauge. I'm happy to go over my PE protocol with you personally. Yes, it's a lot of time and energy. But it's relatively inexpensive. Just time consuming. If you made no gains in 2 years, you're doing it wrong. I've gained roughly .75
Inch over 3 years. However, I was not using the same devices I am now. I learned over time what works for me. You have to do the same. All of my gains came with the right extender and protocol. I currently stand at about 5.375 inches bone pressed length. You and I won't have the same overall gains as folks starting with much more real estate. We just don't have the tissue. But I am hopefull to get to 5.75 inches in the next 2 years.
With respect to filler: I am a Bellafil guy. I have no experience with anything else. I've gone 6 rounds with a total of 35 syringes. Each syringe contains about .8 ML of product which is my understanding. I could be off. You won't be able to go one and done. Most docs will want to layer in 5 syringes only on your first visit to see how your body responds. Now this isn't always the case. I hear
Avanti Derma might put in a lot more for the first visit. I've used 2 great doctors. I watched the Dr.
Rupeka video recently and it was excellent. If you're in Ohio, I would definitely go to Dr. R and I would def go with Bellafil. I would not go with
HA if you want more permanent gains. And yes, you will get some lumps and bumps with bellafil and a a bit of weird
Foreskin looking like fat wring below your glands. You can look at some pics online and see what I mean. I got used to it overtime and when you get an
Erection, the site of it is substantially mitigated. It's a tradeoff. Your D won't look perfectly smooth anymore. The woman I'm with now I have told her I've been getting filler. Including the 10 syringes I just recieved at
Shafer Clinic in NY. I've also used some funny excuses that the doctor tried to fix my botched
Circumcision from birth!! Women really don't care to be honest with you. I won't be able to take an accurate
Girth measurment until the bellafil starts forming the more permanent collagen. But my
Girth is about 5.5 in in the middle and 6.5 at the base. Which is surprsing because I was 5.5 middle shaft before I went for my 10 syringes. I'm hoping the middle gets bigger when the bellafil starts forming collagen. But it may not. Everyone's anatomy is different. On average, you're looking at a quarter to half an
Inch Girth with each 5 syringes. That has been my own experience. And based on my last procedure, I believe you get diminishing marginal returns the more you go. Again, that's just my own personal experience. As far as cost goes, yes it's extremely expensive. But I'm much older and I have the resources. I've spent about $45,000 in total on filler. But I was not looking to save money by going to Mexico like many folks. I was looking for max safety, expertise and convenience. If you can see a doc in the same state you live in, you are in a great position.