TOPIC: New to phalloplasty

Hi all,

After browsing here a few months I finally decided to create an account. I’m still undecided if this is simply a paid promo site or legitimate, but I believe with my unhappiness with my size and effect it’s having on my mental health, it’s a risk worth trying.

A little stat summary, I’m in my 30’s, active, healthy and fit. I’m 5’8 and 175 pounds at about 14% body fat measured with calipers by a physical therapist.
My measurements are 6.3” Erect length ( Not “ bone pressed” as I think this is an inaccurate way to measure that only gives false representations.) 1.75” Erect width, and 4.75” Erect Girth. My penis is very symmetrical, I don’t curve or have one area that is noticeably thicker or thinner and I point up when Erect. I am Circumcised. I had a vasectomy in 2022.

My issue and concern is with circumference and width. In all of the feedback I’ve ever had from partners both long term and in the kink lifestyle community, I’ve never had a complaint about length being an issue. While I recognize I’m probably fairly average in the length scenario, it isn’t something that concerns me and I truly feel content with it. On to the concern, I’ve only ever had a few partners mention that “if it was just a little thicker it would really stretch me out” or things of that nature. I am very fortunate with my long term partner now, as she is very petite in that area. I fit and fill her nicely, even a little gape when I pull out. However, it has always been my desire to not just fit/fill. I want to stretch. I want to be able to have a partners fingers not touch when they grip me etc. it is something that at first was just a thought, then now has become an obsession. It’s affected my interest in sexual activity with my partner, affected my feelings and view of myself, depression etc. it’s to the point now where I can barely enjoy intercourse because I’m so obsessed with feeling too thin. I’m desperate and it literally affects my interactions with potential kink play partners/my girlfriend etc.

On to the hopeful plans/research/ideas etc

I am currently on TRT and I plan to stay on for life, with the HCG I have zero testicular Atrophy and the physical benefits as well as sexual desire have been fantastic.
I will be piercing my frenum next month, with the hopes of adding a wide heavy bar, so that at least toward the tip the bar will give a little extra “oomph” in terms of wall rubbing etc.
I am taking a supplement combo that has effectively and perceptually doubled ejaculation volume and am very happy with this.
I am interested in the possibility of PMMA, or the P-Long therapy and plan on doing lots of research here. Anyways I appreciate you reading/listening, and I am hopeful I can find some help and or solutions here.

Trenbolone wrote: Hi all,

After browsing here a few months I finally decided to create an account. I’m still undecided if this is simply a paid promo site or legitimate, but I believe with my unhappiness with my size and effect it’s having on my mental health, it’s a risk worth trying.

A little stat summary, I’m in my 30’s, active, healthy and fit. I’m 5’8 and 175 pounds at about 14% body fat measured with calipers by a physical therapist.
My measurements are 6.3” Erect length ( Not “ bone pressed” as I think this is an inaccurate way to measure that only gives false representations.) 1.75” Erect width, and 4.75” Erect Girth. My penis is very symmetrical, I don’t curve or have one area that is noticeably thicker or thinner and I point up when Erect. I am Circumcised. I had a vasectomy in 2022.

My issue and concern is with circumference and width. In all of the feedback I’ve ever had from partners both long term and in the kink lifestyle community, I’ve never had a complaint about length being an issue. While I recognize I’m probably fairly average in the length scenario, it isn’t something that concerns me and I truly feel content with it. On to the concern, I’ve only ever had a few partners mention that “if it was just a little thicker it would really stretch me out” or things of that nature. I am very fortunate with my long term partner now, as she is very petite in that area. I fit and fill her nicely, even a little gape when I pull out. However, it has always been my desire to not just fit/fill. I want to stretch. I want to be able to have a partners fingers not touch when they grip me etc. it is something that at first was just a thought, then now has become an obsession. It’s affected my interest in sexual activity with my partner, affected my feelings and view of myself, depression etc. it’s to the point now where I can barely enjoy intercourse because I’m so obsessed with feeling too thin. I’m desperate and it literally affects my interactions with potential kink play partners/my girlfriend etc.

On to the hopeful plans/research/ideas etc

I am currently on TRT and I plan to stay on for life, with the HCG I have zero testicular Atrophy and the physical benefits as well as sexual desire have been fantastic.
I will be piercing my frenum next month, with the hopes of adding a wide heavy bar, so that at least toward the tip the bar will give a little extra “oomph” in terms of wall rubbing etc.
I am interested in the possibility of PMMA, or the P-Long therapy and plan on doing lots of research here. Anyways I appreciate you reading/listening, and I am hopeful I can find some help and or solutions here.

I hope you gain benefit ouf of this site in the best ways possible, whether it's to get something non-surgical, surgical, or nothing at all.

And by whether or not you are undecided about whether this site is some kind of paid-promo, I would like to tell you that all the reports of men here are authentic, and this forum has been in operation for 13 years, not having Sponsors until the late 2010's (and therefore was ran voluntarily most its existence). Newcomers may be overwhelmed by the content and probably can't put into context how much history there is here, so I'll do what I can to improve upon that for future readers.

Your starting size is pretty normal, but it appears you're a stage where between lifestyles and your own personal self-image, Girth enhancement may work for you. Whichever option you decide (if you decide to at all) can give you at least a 0.5" yield in circumference. I will say though, sincerely, that if these feelings are leading to obsession or depression, be sure to have that addressed first and go into this with a sound state of mind.

This stuff works, but it isn't without risk and not all results are necessarily 5-Star. You have to be sure you really want it. If you have any questions on navigating the site or any suggestions you can offer to make this more user/patient friendly, please feel free to share. Good luck.

Dude I was in the exact same situation as yourself. I so highly recommend getting a permanent solution and going thicker. It’s such a game changer and will help your mental health and confidence in the way your looking for.

EricPig wrote: Dude I was in the exact same situation as yourself. I so highly recommend getting a permanent solution and going thicker. It’s such a game changer and will help your mental health and confidence in the way your looking for.

Thanks Eric, I’m excited at the prospect of it being a legitimate possibility.
I am looking forward to the frenum piercing as I think it will help build some intrigue/confidence/and help with hitting the walls etc.

I’ve never pumped before, but after viewing some threads etc it looks like this helps temporarily, do you have any experience pumping?


It seems like p-long therapy is just PRP and some stretching techniques… not saying it doesn’t work for some, but to me sounds like a load of BS.
I believe PMMA will be the way to go. Now it’s about finding a reputable, affordable provider.

Dude you’re in the right place. PMMA is a great option and there’s a lot of guys here that have gone that route. Rejuval is a company in Atlanta that uses PMMA. Avanti Derma is a place in Tijuana that uses it. Both great places.

I have pumped before. I used the bathmate water pump. Great pump and had a lot of fun with it. It’s nice to play around and see what you’ll look like after your filler.

The piercing sounds cool. I bet that would feel really cool for a girl. Imma have to look up that. I’m curious now.

what’s your goal measurements?

Hey Eric

If I could be 6.3x6 I’d be pretty happy with that. In an ideal world I’d be able to achieve 6.5 Girth though.

The piercing is awesome looking, and from the few folks I know who have experienced it their feedback is highly positive, especially with a wide bar.

That is a very obtainable goal. Some consider that to be the ideal measurements.

Are you going to wait to get pierced until after you’re at your desired Girth or go for it now?

Hey Eric,

Piercing will be net month. So before filler for sure. Since it’s the skin underneath the glans, I can take it out and redo it later if needed.

As far as pumping, I presume I need a Cock ring to prevent the blood from pooling back out after I pump it in lol? Do I pump Erect?

Neither of those places had pricing, how do I figure that out. It seems most need 2 sessions minimum, likely 3 or more.

Dude go for it. That piercing might be a really unique feeling. M

For pumping I’m not an expert. There’s a few chats on here with guys way more experienced than myself. However. What would happen for me is I would start Flaccid and get hard while in the cylinder. I absolutely loved the feeling of pumping. It’s a completely different sensation. Of course, I did it to try and gain permanent Girth which, I read frequently that if you do it extensively for years will work. A lot of guys who have done manual PE combined pumping with penis extenders.

You will need a Cock ring after pumping to hold the blood but you can’t leave a Cock ring on for long periods of time. Just be careful. Personally I didn’t need to use a Cock ring because pumping ended up pulling fluid into my tissue and would give me increased Girth that way. So I didn’t use the ring. But … Cock rings are fun. There’s a lot of different times and can be a lot of fun to play with.

@Trenbolone
Im pierced, Have been for a LONG TIME - PA. Chicks love it, its like a novelty to them. lol. You will have a harder time with the frenulum bar when you are wearing a noose device. But by the time you need one ( when you get fillers ) you can take it out.

Bone Pressed is a measurement that you should still track. Its a data point; and a good one for reference if as you flucuate through fupa sizes and body fat. You dont have to tell anyone or disclose it or brag on you BP size. But you should track the data point if you begin down this path and more over if you get addicted to "gains" like so many of us have. Considering your Name I assume you will if you treat this like the gym - as i do.

Ejac supps are great - and used to work very well for me prior to my Vasectomy many years ago. BUT - I learned that I had to "cycle" them to keep the Big effects. lol. Keep that in mind. Like so many things, your body will adapt to what you are taking. If you are still shooting big loads after your V , then I am jealous. haha.

Is, or will, your partner going to be onboard with you getting fillers or doing any PE ? With that said, I recommend getting started on some PE: Some hanging and stretching first and then add in pumping ( for length ). Why bother with pumping fir girth when fillers exist.

Hi I'm not really new here been watching n learning on and off for years but I want to say you're in the right place I currently going thru the same feeling... But will be getting mine done very soon... I'm seriously debating Dr. Kupeka in Ohio which is very close to me or the og with years under there belt at aventi derma... Might sound crazy but even tho Ohio close I only waited this long to see the result of many men n the teaming leading in number sand good results is Avanti Derma... So I wish you the best of luck...n know your not alone with that feeling I'm just glad there something out there that can help change that feeling

What is your gut telling you ? And do you have a preference on the material ?