Monroe2345 wrote: feel like I need a support group for this stuff and real life accounts. Super hard to know what to do, if anything!!
You've come to that exact place... it's basically what this site was made for and is today.
Girth is much more attainable than length if it's cosmetic procedures you're looking at.
A simple breakdown involves choosing between
surgical or
non-surgical.
Surgical options like the Penuma I wouldn't recommend, but dermal graft matrices like Surgimend can be great for those who are looking for permanent, modest gains. If you look at the
North American Directory
you'll find that Dr. Liu and Dr. Solomon offer these. They are both Board Certified Plastic Surgeons.
Fat Transfer is also an option.
Non-surgical options are essentially dermal filler injections. I wouldn't recommend silicone oil, but there is an abundance of temporary and long-term options to choose from. There are pros & cons to each. Fillers include Hyaluronic Acid (HA), Radiesse, Renuva, Ellanse, and PMMA. If you can, only an hour flight to the
Pollock Clinics
that offer HA, Adult Circumcisions, Vasectomies, and a whole host of male procedures & services.
Feel free to provide your stats, your goals, and your risk thresholds and I can maybe better point you in the right direction.