So i've been lurking all afternoon and I think I finally got to the point where I have some questions. to lay the background out a bit i've off and on been interested in PE but never looked into it a ton. I had tried some stretching stuff way back when but never could keep it up consistently. More recently I find myself inadvertently in front of the camera in a porn sense (more on that later) and it's put my self doubts back to the forefront.
My first question is I see mention from time to time that people seem to take Hanging/stretching here seriously and that gains of an Inch are possible with consistency. If that's what i'm looking to gain is it better to suck it up and give that a legitimate attempt prior to resorting to surgery?
My current stats are roughly FL 4.5", FG 4. BPEL 6.5 NBPEL 6.25 EG 5. I know i'm not horrible in length but on my body (5'6 210 ish) it doesn't do me any favors especially when I appear on camera. If surgery will give me the results i'm looking for then I have no issues taking that route. A Inch in length would probably make me ecstatic or even a solid 7 would too. As far as Girth I see a lot of people saying 6.5 is starting to push it and 6 would probably be fine with me so it seems like the potential gains are well within what I could expect from surgery.
Locations and procedures are basically where i'm starting to get stuck. I see TJ mentioned a lot and it seems like the costs are much better there, but I won't lie... i'm having a mental block about doing surgery out of the country. but looking at some stateside options it looks as though i'd pay almost twice the cost for similar procedures. On the procedure side it looks like the only way i'm getting length is the ligament cut; which while i'm not crazy about the scar I can deal with. I saw some posts mentioning that the loss in stability isn't as bad as it's been made to sound in years past but if someone can confirm that it would be nice as well. As far as the options for Girth, I mostly see fat transfers as something relegated to the past. Personally, if a Inch of Girth is attainable with that method I would prefer it. This leads me back to why I end up on screen and why it's really hard to be satisfied with myself: my wife has probably been the biggest proponent for breast augmentations via fat transfers. she's had 4 of them overall and you can imagine nothing looks sizable between them (if curious you can google Demora Avarice). So I know the pro's and con's of fat transfers in that area and how natural the results can be. While I don't like the idea of foreign material if I get the feeling that PMMA is the way to go then that would be the route I take.
Long story short, I had personal issues with my size that have been exacerbated by my lifestyle. She's cool with me as I am but says go ahead and do what would make me happy. Any thoughts or advice is greatly appreciated!
Not necessarily hell bent just know what to expect with the results of fat transfers as it’s been her primary surgery of choice. Honestly I was even look at the results someone got from that Youthology medspa and that might even be worth going for though it obviously doesn’t handle the length issue but those results posted look really good and I’m of a similar size.
Hyperbol wrote: Why are you hell bent on fat transfer?
Honestly, fat is a viable option if you don't overfill and layer incrementally. If performed by a surgeon who knows how to harvest the right kind of fat and how to layer it so that it can vascularize, it's an alternative to HA or Ellanse. It's also your own tissue which is a plus.
As a matter of fact, before I got PMMA many years ago, I was going to visit a Doctor who did FFT. I was in touch with a few FFT guys on Thundersplace and most of them were generally satisfied. I think the reason why Fat got such bad press is that when the results were aesthetically poor, they would be really ugly (like imagine a ginger root as your Dick). This was due to very uneven reabsorption due to overfilling, leaving some areas bulgy and other areas skinny. Just a few images of these that would circulate through Thunders, PEGym, MattersOfSize, MyNewSize, and the Yahoo Phalloplasty Group (forums of old, some which no longer exist) were enough to destroy its reputation.
This is why practitioner counts! I'm not advocating for Fat injections, that's ultimately up to you to decide pros & cons from what you gather here. But I am saying it's a viable option with the right practitioner. Dr. Carney comes to mind (a resident Sponsor), and Dr. Giunta (someone I'd like to invite as Sponsor but was never able to reach him) who has been doing the layered approach for probably two decades.
Honestly, you'll first want to ask yourself "temporary" or "permanent" and they have their pros & cons. Temporary is obviously going to cost more in the long run (you'll have to top off your size periodically), but complications are manageable, and depending on the filler, even reversible to some extent. Permanency provides you a one-stop-shop for size, but can prove more challenging to manage should complications arise.
Once you figure out the Temporary vs Permanent, you can than begin to sort through filler options & Clinics that provide them. Check out progress reports, the Newbie Guide, and general discussion. Then contact these clinics and get a consultation.
Fortunately, when performed on by a qualified practitioner using medical grade material, major complications are seemingly rare.
I’ve never been a temporary person; go big or go home seems appropriate here. I think I’m definitely sold on reaching out to Dr Rupeka since he’s close and the results I’ve seen looked amazing.
The only thing that changes that is if I can find anything more about lig cuts that make me feel like it’s a option I want to take. My current stance is do the fillers and then look into that if I’m not content with the results. The other part of me feels I should just do it all in one and potentially save 1/3 of the cost; I know I’m not going to end up with MORE than I’m comfortable with and even a half a Inch would probably make me feel it was worth it. The potential downsides, recovery time, and how much time you need to put into the recovery actively are what keep me from committing. We have 5 young kids so I know putting that much time into traction will be stressful
Dont worry about stability if you are using a top notch doctor. Mine unit is JUST FINE and we are an every day couple every other day at worst. Now, having said that, with fillers AND the lig cut your hard on will not point upward. So decide if that bothers you or not. But simply man handling your cock and using your hand to shove it in there looks pretty hot on camera. lol.
Next, girth size, to each there own what partners like. Ask @Jacks10
about this, he's thick as fuck and gets with a lot of women. as for me, i average 6.5 and it does take a fair amount of foreplay and or lots of lube - but its not really that difficult to get it in there, its all about her comfort and what she enjoys. And she enjoys the fuck out of it. Same for anal. Most chicks can take it there too if they really want to and if they actually enjoy anal. It is very slow to get it, but once in, she is FULL and love it. Her back door orgasms have never been stronger. Toys help get this "door" ready to be opened. So don't listen to the naysayers; if you guys communicate well then all will be fine.
- go slow and get to 6 ish and see how you like it; then decide to go more if you want to .
Pointing straight up I’m not concerned with, but I would like at least out. Pointing straight down would be what I don’t want. I’m not looking to go to big Girth, starting at 5 it looks like most procedures are going to put me at 6 pretty much guaranteed. My wife is absolutely tiny at 4’11 and she’s voiced concerns about not taking it to far. That said we’ve used some pumps before and I’m pretty sure I’ve been at 6 ish and that’s not been a issue. Is just doing PMMA and then considering the lig cut a viable/smart option? And who’s probably most reputable for both in/out of US? Where someone listed around 5k in Ohio that is somrthing I could knock out sooner rather than the 10k+ I’m seeing for other US lig+Girth.