Keep working at it and I believe you will get better. Look at all the options. I wish Hoddle and Miracle are more active now to give you some guidance.
I would write a letter to elist and send it registered and tell him you need your FULL money back including travel and so on, or you will file a law suite for mail practice and damages which will be much higher than money back. This is true.
If you contact a lawyer, I can be on the phone with you and him to help out in any way...You may PM me anytime. At this moment, I am in northern California.