Greetings members & lurkers of the forum.
It\'s been increasingly difficult for myself & Moderators to frequent & Moderate this forum with the passion & frequency we once had. The biggest reason in our drop in interest has largely come from the tone of the newer generation of forum visitors, and the overall psyche ward this forum has turned into.
I originally opened this forum for a couple reasons, namely two: an alternative to the MyNewSize forum (which at the time was a shill playground and no longer is in operation). The other hope was to create this as an exchange of news, methods, ideas, etc in hopes that the below-average male could find surgical alternatives to stretching & pumping.
For most of this forum\'s life it\'s had the privilege of bright minds, out-of-the-box thinkers, and insightful progress reports. But lately, especially in the last year or two, it\'s devolved into people\'s personal diaries, sharing every bit of neurotic & depressing thought in their mind and spilling it out into a forum that quite frankly does not care. And they aren\'t isolated cases. It\'s becoming all too common.
And in no way do I want to downplay a poor result from
PMMA, but you\'d swear some of you had your dicks fall off when you go on & on. Many of you have no idea what men before you endured before the advent of
PMMA on these forums. Complications were REAL, which included nerve-damage, impotence, permanent shortening, scarring, infections, and tissue
Necrosis. This is all the more reason why I get a headache when I see someone treating a
Nodule like it\'s life or death.
Nodule!? A
Nodule?? In years & methods past, a
Nodule would have been a heaven-sent \"complication.\" It\'s crucial we get all the facts on any issue for any procedure, including nodules, but we don\'t want to read through how your life is over because of it.
Anyways, as for the \"coming changes ahead.\" I\'m now actively deleting threads & posts that are seemingly depressing, neurotic, or take away from the original tone of this forum. I will, however, keep up threads where I deem grief to be appropriate, much like when a patient once had a piece of silicone protruding from his penis. Otherwise, if I feel like I can\'t get through your posts because you bitch & moan too much, I\'m tossing it. It\'s my site, don\'t like it, go else where. This isn\'t your diary and if I\'m going to continue operating this site voluntarily, I\'m going to need to clean this site up. Too many headcases around here. I don\'t even think about my penis anymore, life goes on. Too many of you are needlessly obsessed. There are, quite frankly, too few of us who justifiably have any reason being here.
In closing, thanks to all previous forum donors, forum veterans, and Moderators.
-S.O.
p.s. this isn\'t just my opinion. When I ask certain Moderators and/or other forum veterans why they no longer visit, they almost always cite this as the reason: too many crazies & weirdos making the site depressing and un-enjoyable. Wasn\'t always like this.
