TOPIC: Mudball's Question(grow or not to grow)

Hi everyone
I have been looking over this board, reading most every post from a year back. Until now, I felt that I was not someone who could really add anything here, but have I learned alot by being here. This sight has most likely saved many men(including me). I am amazed on how well versed men are on here about this subject.
So with that being said I feel that it maybe time for me to start to add to this site, and give a background about me and what got me here and ask for advise on moving forward or not.
I am an athletic man (not like I used to be), 42 yrs old, 6\'1\", 280 pounds, ex power lifter, 58\" chest, 39\" waist, 19.5\" arms and yes a little chunky.

Penis stats
BPEL 7.5\"
NBPEL 6\"
EG 5.5\" same the entire shaft
Have not bothered with Flaccid because it is all over the place but generally I am a Grower

I have never hung, stretched, pulled, cut, injected or anything. What you see is what I got

What got me here; I have always thought I was painfully ave. in the penis area. I know that not to be true but I have always thought the same about my body and that also is not ave. But it still does not get rid of the thought of am I big enough? I have not got around much, but I am very sexual and need sex alot. I am just very committed to whoever I am with and they get it alot. I am currently married and we have a very active sex life an we are very good with each other, but I knew she would like to feel more of a stretch and filled up feeling. So I am the type of person that has to know what I am getting into and that is what led me to this site. She never said anything, it is just a feeling I get and I happened to see an old email to a guy that she had mentioned how much she liked that stretched feeling when a guy was first getting into her. So I did a lot of research here and everywhere else I could and ruled out a lot of things and was starting to seriously think about PM MA. This was 6mnths ago, so instead of jumping into it I decided to give Girth a test drive, I ordered a dildo. This was about 6\" at the head and 5.5\" on the shaft but was hard so it felt a little bigger, so I tried it on my unsuspecting wife. This way she couldn\'t talk me out of it, I get her really bothered, she can not wait for me to start fucking her and I slip this in her. She likes it, I will not go into details but she doesn\'t climb the walls but she liked it. So a few months are going by and I decide to up grade the toy, and get a 6.25\" Girth toy. It is big, well if I had that I would be happy. I again try it on my unsuspecting wife, I am thinking as tight as she is that this might have been a little big, but here we go....Remember she liked it to be stretched..well she also likes it to take a little while to get it in and she liked it alot.
So here is the ? I have always wanted a bigger Dick, but not so bad that I wanted to risk to much. I really like pleasing my mate, she still says that I am fine. But the look on her face, tells she would not mind either.
It seems so far that PMMA is a very good option, with many possible long term risks but thanks to this Board if someone takes the time to read, one can make a very informed move. This is all about a deep desire to please my wife and feel like being big. It is important enough to potentially take the risk of PMMA.
I am going to try and attach pictures for starting point and would really like some input from the some of the very informed members on what I should go for with DR. C. I know my skin is not super tight but there is alot of loose skin on the under side, also my scar is I think high. Any info would be greatly appreciated

Welcome to PhalloBoards Mudball.

Just only a few thoughts from me to start off, as we will surely have time to cover things more in detail along the thread. Other members, veterans who have undergone procedures or have similar personal background will probably chime in.

As far as I am concerned, you have a big Cock and you should not mess with it by undergoing any procedure.

But I expect that you will. And that is because of the unfortunate circumstances of your private life, as outlined in your presentation.

Don\'t rush into things and make sure you are psychologically ready to take the unavoidable risks which come with any procedure.

I wish you the best of luck.

@supa- thanks and I am not convinced yet and if I did not go through with anything I have done just fine with what I have. So I try to be logical on my decisions but it is on my mind that is for sure. This is my Girth picture, I have a new appreciation for getting pictures of your unit

Here is the length and it shows my scar.

Here is a picture that shows scar and I guess maybe gives an idea of skin tightness. I have really loose skin on the bottom and it gets tighter on sides an top. Maybe able to pull the skin away half Inch when Erect without discomfort.

Sorry it did not post. I will try again

Your pictures simply confirm what we already know from your story: you have been blessed with a Cock which is bigger than average. Surely, it is thinner than Nacho Vidal\'s Cock or some fellow PhalloBoards members\' such as Messageman, M7, JABM, etc. In theory it should not bother you but because your wife tried larger cocks, it does.

Recall when at school you were looking for the solution to a mathematical exercise in the appendix of the book? You knew that each question had a solution, no matter how complicated the problem looked like.

As far as your (indeed our) question is concerned, not only the answer is missing from the appendix (as a matter of fact some books only provided solutions to even numbered questions while you were struggling with exercise 17), the answer simply does not exist.

In PE there aren\'t any answers, only choices.

In my opinion, given your stats and the current experimental status of the available procedures, you should choose to not do anything.

Have your wife do kegel exercises to tighten her vagina instead.

Well I am going to make a post on what I am going through mentally on my quest for a larger penis. This is in line with my threads title and I really wanted to have this cover from start to finish and with a possibly of not going ahead with enlargement. Penis size to me is totally a social pressure that we put on ourselves and by people that already have a large penis. Although guys that are hung on here do not mean anything by the posts they write, it just plays in everyone else\'s mind. I really like that guys with a bigger member write about their experiences, positive and negative, because I want a no bullshit account of what a guy is experiencing that I can\'t because my Dick is not that big. I guess it lets me know if what I may or may not do to myself is going to give me the desired effect that I am looking for. It is hard not to want to be 6.5\" Girth because many of the people that are going under this are going for that or bigger, and lets face it, no one wants to feel inadequate down there. With that being said, I also truly believe that it is not a one size fits all here, I have been with girls that if MM flipped out that 7.5\" Girth of a Dick they would scream in tearer! But I have also been with girls that , that would work just fine! I think us married guys have an advantage in that we are with someone who we are with for the long haul, and every married man would love nothing better to keep their wife fully satisfied, but the single guys I feel need to be happy with them selves, where ever that is (meaning with or without enlargement). What if you meet the perfect women and she likes a 5 Inch Girth and you rocketed right by that and now she really does not like it bigger, I guess you can always get bigger is what I am getting at.
So after all that, I am at the point where I know I want to be bigger and I know that my wife would not complain, through playing with her ( see above post). Now I am at the stage of is this worth the risk? No if you are logical about it, and yes if I think of how I would personally feel about being bigger. I have been researching this for about one year, and I am going to give it a little more time to make my decision and I feel that all guys need to slow down and make sure you put a little more logical reasoning into this decision! For some that may not be as long as I am taking to make the decision or longer for some, just make sure you are truly comfortable with it. But I sure would like to make my wife scream

The Girth pic looks like the tape measure says 4.5 not 5.5 like it says in the first post. Not trying to bust Balls here, just curious if you maybe misread the tape measure or if you weren\'t hard in the pic?

I never cut off the Inch of the tape that has no marks on it.

Gotcha, I see that now.

We are definitely very similar in size bud. I\'m set for 24 April with Dr. C. I would think that since we have similar goals as well that my result should give you an idea of what you could expect if you decide to go through it.

Yes indeed! When I saw your photos I thought I was looking at mine!! I wish you all the luck in the world and I am not to far from making up my mind. It will most likely be next fall because my busy season is starting and I want to make sure when I do it there will be plenty of time to nurse it and then test drive it in my wife!!!

I\'ll definitely share my journey, the good and bad of it all with you and the rest of the fine gents on this great board. Till then, I\'ll continue to educate myself in the weeks to come...