Who did your surgery?
Pain at the end of the
Erection (near the glans) is normal. The stitches are all across the top there. I still have very mild sensations with
Erection. I say sensations because painful at this point would be excessive. I am 12 weeks post-op.
Oh wait a minute. I am reading your post again and see you are talking about the top as meaning near the base. Is this correct? If so do not bend your
Erection up like that now or perhaps ever. Think of taking a straight rod and putting a layer on top of it. Then bend the middle up so it forms a frowny face. That will stretch the graft on top. The other (a smile) will cause it to bunch up and possibly break. You do not want this.
You are now beginning to experience some of what gets lost on this site. Namely, we all talk about size and success. What you are experiencing or realizing is the trade offs. Yes there is something foreign in there and it will feel different. And you will also be more limited in your movements. Does it suck? Yeah kind of. Is it livable? Yes. Do the doctors mention it? No.
I would be willing to be that other than infection none of the complications were mentioned. If they were no one would do the surgery.
I know that was a bit direct, but it is factual. In terms of pain...try to avoid pain wherever possible. Common sense should prevail. You will be able to have an
Erection without pain. The area where the incision was made is tender and will not be fully recovered for 6 months. But you should not notice it within 3 months I would say. As far as bending it up? Maybe never. For now please do not do it. Think of your penis as straight out and
Erect or
Hanging down. I also recommend against pointing up when
Flaccid and under pressure (such as underwear). I used to be most comfortable this way, but now, after an alloderm problem related to what you are discussing, I do not do that with the
Belladerm graft.
Nomad1
