GillPicard wrote: I’m curious if taking something like tablets or capsules actually helps with control. If you’ve tried it, how effective was it, and did you notice any side effects?
I haven't, although I have heard about topical creams and sprays that help, and I know the company "Hims" and a few others have oral pills, but to the extent they work I am not personally familiar with -- would love for others to chime in on it.
I've had intermittent issues with premature ejaculation in the past, and my short-term remedy (which I am not recommending others resort to) is catching a quick buzz from a few cocktails. The key is that you don't want to get drunk (and therefore behave sloppily), nor do you want to get your partner so drunk that blur the lines of consensual engagement -- just a Happy Hour's worth of time like 2-3 cocktails maximum (depending on your tolerance) -- I find this to be a short-term remedy that helps extend me longer than usual.
That said, I would like to avoid resorting to this because alcohol is just not a healthy means to resort to for any reason, but fortunately the prevalence of social drinking has allowed me an "out" when the pressure (e.g. performance anxiety) was on, but for some people this may not be ideal. This is why I would be interested in hearing more about success stories with pills, sprays, and/or creams.