TOPIC: Ideal proportions?

What would be your ideal penis? What is the perfect Girth-to-length ratio for you? How do you feel about shaft size compared to glans size? I'd like to go as big as my anatomy allows while keeping a good aesthetic. A Girth of around 80+% of length is optimal for me, which would make my shaft about 1" bigger then my glans. I'm currently 8" X 5" but would like to reach 8" X 6.5". Could I gain more? Should I aspire to less? I'm in the deciding/planning phase right now, trying to decide on a realistic goal. Lucky for me, my wife is OK with whatever I decide to do. Leaning towards HA initially, then maybe switching to something more permanent down the road if I like it.

I moved this to the more appropriate sub-category.

You are a staggering 8x5, may I ask what motivation brought you here? Not passing judgement, but when nature's already endowed you, why risk it (even if the risk is minimal with current procedures) when you could put that focus, energy, and budget elsewhere? I know that was not the intent of this topic, but I had to ask.

Speaking of this topic, I am of the belief that a 6.5" x 5.5" (as a show-er Flaccid, not Grower) is the ideal size that can accommodate all orifice ranges and sexual positions adequately. As someone who is thicker than 6inches around, I have had issues with some women vaginally, teeth with oral, and rejection of anal. While I don't possess your length, I do notice more-often-than-not that men in adult videos with 7" + long units seldom ever go "Balls-deep" because they've hit the cervix, and that's something I'd rather not sacrifice. Going Balls-deep isn't only a great feeling for the guy, but women do enjoy the slapping of a males scrotum during sex all the same.

I feel that 6.5" x 5.5" with a good Flaccid hang gives you the widest range of sexual compatibility with (presumably female) partners while retaining the "hung" or "big" title -- and with pictures I've seen of penises in this ballpark, it can certainly retain a degree of naturalness -- all this leads me to conclude that 6.5" NBPEL x 5.5" MSEG are ideal proportions (show-er Flaccid hang a plus).

Two things brought me here. First, I have pretty loose skin when Flaccid, which I am not particularly fond of. It looks better when Erect, but still pretty elastic. Filler is a much less invasive procedure then surgery to tighten it. I can live with it, it's just an aspect of my body that I'm not fully satisfied with. Secondly, while I am above average length-wise, my Girth is a bit small proportionally, at least to my eye(that's why my post is focused on proportionality). That doesn't affect functionality, it's purely a matter of aesthetic sense and ego. Ideally, we would all be happy with what we have, but we are all subjected to cultural pressures, and I'm no exception. We all want to be perfect, whatever that means in our own minds, even though nobody is. The fact that my wife is open to the idea is what prompted me to ask about this. Since I'm married, I don't need to worry about being compatible with a range of partners, or fit of condoms, only what she (and my bank account) will allow. I am simply curious, and discussion costs nothing and has no risk. I'm not committed to having anything done, just toying with the idea, so it's all hypothetical anyways.
For clarity, it's 8" BPEL, 7" NPBEL, so not radically bigger then 6.5" NPBEL. If I were to scale 5.5" to that length, it would be 5.93" of Girth which in my opinion would look good.