TOPIC: Female Opinions on enlargement

I am wondering how girls have reacted to your procedure. I do not mean in terms of the size and look, but rather what they thought about you getting enlargement done in the first place?

Do girls find this weird? Do they generally support us as long as we have a good reason and are doing it for ourselves? Do they respect that we are making our lives better?

This can be for wives or just any hookups that you have told.

Mconklin1964 wrote: I am wondering how girls have reacted to your procedure. I do not mean in terms of the size and look, but rather what they thought about you getting enlargement done in the first place?

Do girls find this weird? Do they generally support us as long as we have a good reason and are doing it for ourselves? Do they respect that we are making our lives better?

This can be for wives or just any hookups that you have told.

Most guys who report sharing it often do so with significant others (e.g. wives), and it isn't common to see men solicit this information to casual hookups. I personally have had positive reception to my girth, but none were the wiser. Or if they did have suspicion, they either were respectful enough not to suggest it and/or didn't have enough evidence (since this procedure isn't so mainstream) to prove it.

I believe this has been asked before on the old forums PhalloBoards 2.0 , but wouldn't hurt to have a more up-to-date chat on it.

Great question! While not specifically asked, I think it is very important to point out that results and the opinion of the patient and partners almost always change over time. This means that many procedures are met with less favor, particularly from the patient's view, until 3, 6, or even 12 months out. Overall, it usually gets better with time.

I have had multiple partners, and my overall opinion is they (partners) generally do not think of anything as fake, UNLESS go take it too far. These are rare procedures to the public view, and as such there is less thought of such. If these procedures were as popular as breast augmentation…different outcomes. If you have a partner who knows or has seen before and after, that will pose a likely recognized outcome, particularly if short time lapse between procedures. Follow your post-op care with care, use only good doctors, and your odds are good that you will receive a boost in confidence and outlook.

For those you DO TELL, it's case by case - most will affirm you are fine and do not need it - which is both true and thoughtful. But if you associate it with you want it and liken it to a girl getting a boob job, most will support you and give honest feedback. Be aware, they will not understand the risks, and there are more here than in a common boob job.

Tip: I suggest you have a trusted friend or resource (perhaps someone on this forum) to assist you to not go too far on size-related issues, and even ask your doctor to advise you before you are about to take something beyond "normal acceptance." Normal acceptance is based on both overall averages or expectations as well as normal for just how much is reasonable to change about your original size, etc.

I still don’t understand why some of you guys refer to this as “risky.” You say it’s more risky than a boob job, but I really feel from all the research I’ve done that if you go to someone like Avanti or Rupeka and take a conservative approach, you are almost certainly getting great results. Maybe the occasional Nodule here and there but then can be fixed and who really cares in the first place.

The cliffnotes reply:

1. Risk of any surgery or procedure always include risk of infection.
2. Risk of disappointing results. Suggestion look at the best posted before and after pics on various doctor sites, even with the best, some after photos will likely cause you pause as to whether they were as you would expect or want.
3. Risk of higher cost...whether correction or wanting more, wanting different can spiral out of control. Many men here started with a 5-15k cost only to now have spent over 2x or 3x what they "thought" when they signed up. Wishful thinking is powerful! And never under estimate the power of denial. (Farris Bueller)