TOPIC: Situation

So met this girl and she turn out to be a working girl the end.

Man, if that’s a deal breaker for you, then jump ship. I know some people don’t care if their SO is involved in some stuff like that, but if you even THINK that she is, and that’s not something you can live with, it’s going to bother you continuously.

jjrealer21 wrote: So, met this girl a few weeks back, when I was traveling out of the country we hit it off. Have some pretty great chemistry, she said she was a tour guide slash translator. But recently, she wanted my help with getting payment from a 'friend' of hers, so I did and I notice in the notes it said 'for videos'. In the past there has been instances where it seems like she is into sex work. So like an idiot I replied to the guy a number telling him to text me..so the guy narced on me and she pretty much confronted me with the screenshot he sent to her, now I know she won't admit to selling nudes. I pretty much denied everything and played it cool. But wanted to know you guys thoughts on the matter. Not really down to date a sexworker again (stripper) how do I navigate these waters?

I'm sort of confused by the story but if she's a sex worker she ought to be upfront about it right now. This shady texting and money exchange stuff sounds scam-ish to me, or at the very least, warrants a full discussion.

Did she tell you what kind of videos they were? Obviously the guy bought videos. Did she even try to give an alibi? Also, did you meet her in a country that's known for sex workers courting foreign sugar daddies?

Other than that, I'd just demand to know what kind of videos they were and get her to be honest. If she owns up to whatever she's doing then you can make acear headed choice as to how to proceed.

Nope, she didn't fess up to it. A friend of mine pretty much confirm that she is a working girl and sleeps with different foreigners looking to use them for money down the line. Those guys that she uses don't really know about each other and that's how she make her living by using foreign men. Anyways, I blocked her and that's the end of that.

jjrealer21 wrote: Nope, she didn't fess up to it. A friend of mine pretty much confirm that she is a working girl and sleeps with different foreigners looking to use them for money down the line. Those guys that she uses don't really know about each other and that's how she make her living by using foreign men. Anyways, I blocked her and that's the end of that.

Sweet! Way to get out of that one.