TOPIC: Has your wife ever asked you this??

So after sex Saturday my wife asked if she was tight enough.....

WTF!!!!! I was stunned and didn\'t know what to say. She then said you used to tell me I was tight, but you haven\'t said that in a while.....

So I very quickly said well baby there are things you do and different positions that keep you tighter, so there are times you feel a bit snugger than others.

That seemed to satisfy the question for the moment.

I think she may be figuring out that she is a bit bigger than normal in the vaj department..... she still doesn\'t know the things I do to her that totally drive her up the wall and make her cum big time, but she may be starting to figure it out..

The few times I have mentioned PMMA of HA augmentation, the sleeve usage on occasion.

She may be open to vaginal tightening....I should clarify here, not surgery but exercises like kegels, that\'s gonna be a touchy conversation.

How would ya\'ll approach that conversation other than lightly?

Thanks for the responses guys. Mustang you may be right, as we have had sex 7 times this month and that comment came after a back to back session. I can\'t perform as good back to backs like I used to be able to. Sex twice in one morning doesn\'t come very often anymore and maybe that\'s not a bad thing.

Possibly it was simply due to taking about 45 minutes to \"let it fly\" the 2ND time around and we were both exhausted. She seemed a bit frustrated afterwards and that\'s when the question was sprung on me.

At 49 I\'m no spring chicken and my body let me know. I wasn\'t ready for anything for almost a week, my thighs and lower back were hurting. I don\'t think she was wanting to either as she was sore for a few days.

Don\'t get old guys, stay young and in shape.......

It could have been a simple \"girls talking\" about this issue and she mentioned it to you. I\'d wait and see if she mentions it again then ask her what can \"we\" do about it?

IF she is happy with you as you are, I suggest you do nothing. Her question could have been a \"blip on the screen\" and may pass....

Dude i was going through this exact situation. Before the girl I was with I had never thought about my size being an issue, I am BP 7.2\" x 5.2\" basegirth. This girl just had a bigger v and i loved her and wanted to stay with her so I\'ve been considering PMMA. I told her about it and she fucking freaked and I didn\'t want to tell her it was because of her but I finally did because she doesn\'t have a problem getting off she cums 3 or 4 times and squirts every time we have sex but I cannot feel her sometimes and honestly it completely fucked with my head. So.... we almost split up over it and then she agreed to let me do it. Then we actually split up a few weeks later for other reasons. We\'ve discussed getting back together but if we do I am getting PMMA for sure cause I know how bad that situation messed with me and I cannot go through the rest of my sex life feeling like that.

lakingsfan35 wrote: So after sex Saturday my wife asked if she was tight enough.....

WTF!!!!! I was stunned and didn\'t know what to say. She then said you used to tell me I was tight, but you haven\'t said that in a while.....

So I very quickly said well baby there are things you do and different positions that keep you tighter, so there are times you feel a bit snugger than others.

That seemed to satisfy the question for the moment.

I think she may be figuring out that she is a bit bigger than normal in the vaj department..... she still doesn\'t know the things I do to her that totally drive her up the wall and make her cum big time, but she may be starting to figure it out..

The few times I have mentioned PMMA of HA augmentation, the sleeve usage on occasion.

She may be open to vaginal tightening....I should clarify here, not surgery but exercises like kegels, that\'s gonna be a touchy conversation.

How would ya\'ll approach that conversation other than lightly?

Actually women worry about what everybody thinks about them then turn around and gossip about others..

Are women worried about what other women think when other women see how loose they are when in the showers of the locker room ?

BigManX wrote: (I guess its almost like being reverse hung), are very loose women worried about what men think of the them being loose?

I think hell yeah.

this may be a cheeky comment

But Im thinking its like from experience some women are very loose and some are very tight naturally (I guess its almost like being reverse hung), are very loose women worried about what men think of the them being loose?

Maybe you could both try getting something done? You could try injections andshe could get tightening? Or you could even get surgery? That way neither of you are \'left out\', so to speak, and you\'re both getting things done. Might improve your sex life a lot more because youll both feel like new people.

Dunno if this will help but thought I\'d offer my advice..

Keep us updated please.

have her use ben-wa Balls and do kegals ... its on her. If a woman isnt killing kegals then she just doesnt care and is being lazy. Its as if you were lazy and not doing shit in the relationship.
This is the only area i put all the onus on the woman.

vaginal tightening is a fucking joke and doesnt work and is a horrible idea IMO

I think it\'s a lot safer for a woman to have vag tightening than for us to get plastic beads injected into our dicks. We need to start speaking up. We have been inundated with small penis jokes by pop culture since I can remember as a kid. But we get no reprieve.

Here is my three cents worth, yes, everyone is built different everywhere and as time changes everything on everyone changes.
My penis is shorter and thinner than I was in my 40\'s.
But interesting over the years, I always thought my spouse was too tight and I was too big.
There were complaints that it hurt.
Well here i am now, both my spouse and I have aged, and the spouse says it no longer hurts and I find my sensitivity has dropped, so what used to be a 10 minute fuck can now go as long as my spouse and I can take it.
I guess its an age thing for sure, but the spouse likes it better, even though secretly I miss my big Dick, but it works.
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