TOPIC: Genuine Fear

I recently had a chance to hook up with an old ex girlfriend of mine.
This was the first time she had seen me since the \'enhancement\'.

She always thought I was \"big\" before anyways, and told me that (I was 5.1 EG).

When I whipped out the business she outright refused. She looked genuinely scared. I think she will eventually come around, however this was the first time I\'ve encountered this issue. I\'m currently 5.8 EG - 5.9 EG. She looked like a dear caught in the headlights.

My question is this:
Have any of you had this type of experience?

Especially this question: Anyone who had large Girth pre-op - have you had a similar experience with natural Girth? I\'m wondering if it was something she didn\'t like aesthetically or if sometimes they just get scared when they see a large Girth.

Later on that night she said

\"Every time I see you your Dick gets bigger\"

We both laughed, in my mind I laughed because obviously this was the only time that it happened for real but I think after she dated me in Canada she went back to Korea, then came back and she probably noticed a difference (she compared me in her mind to the Korean locals). And then I saw her again, now I think it sent her mentally out of her comfort zone.

Later on that night she said
\"Your Dick will become the biggest in the world\"

I got worried because she seemed half serious.

buttercups wrote: I recently had a chance to hook up with an old ex girlfriend of mine.
This was the first time she had seen me since the \'enhancement\'.

She always thought I was \"big\" before anyways, and told me that (I was 5.1 EG).

When I whipped out the business she outright refused. She looked genuinely scared. I think she will eventually come around, however this was the first time I\'ve encountered this issue. I\'m currently 5.8 EG - 5.9 EG. She looked like a dear caught in the headlights.

My question is this:
Have any of you had this type of experience?

Especially this question: Anyone who had large Girth pre-op - have you had a similar experience with natural Girth? I\'m wondering if it was something she didn\'t like aesthetically or if sometimes they just get scared when they see a large Girth.

Later on that night she said

\"Every time I see you your Dick gets bigger\"

We both laughed, in my mind I laughed because obviously this was the only time that it happened for real but I think after she dated me in Canada she went back to Korea, then came back and she probably noticed a difference (she compared me in her mind to the Korean locals). And then I saw her again, now I think it sent her mentally out of her comfort zone.

Later on that night she said
\"Your Dick will become the biggest in the world\"

I got worried because she seemed half serious.

Hey do you have a picture? I think were almost the same size.

Just on my thread.

Buttercups, I dunno man, I\'ve been 6.25 el by 5.85 eg since puberty I\'m 47 and I\'ve never been told im big, thick or anything. I\'ve never been turned down, its fit in every pussy I\'ve taken for a test drive or two in. That\'s well over 250. Its been a tight fit into some and the proverbial hotdog down the hallway in others. Most have been on the snug side until they are worked up a bit then its easy going. Just gotta use the tongue and fingers nibble on the nipples to get the juices flowin a bit....

@butter: I\'ve written this before, Asian chicks are especially sensitive to thick dicks. They\'re built to accommodate smaller sizes. Guys, always keep this in mind: The thicker you go, the closer you get to some, and the farther you go away from others.

@lakings: We\'re about the same size (you\'re a lil thicker; I\'m 5.6 eg) and have been measured against same sample size (250+ women). You\'re sentiments, based on your experiences, are pretty spot-on to what I\'ve experienced. The only thing I\'d say is that I\'ve definitely heard \"too big\" and \"go easy, you\'re hurting me.\" I wouldn\'t say frequently, but certainly often enough to satisfy the old ego. On a couple of occasions, only with Asian girls, sex wasn\'t even possible. But I hold similar sentiments about \"hot dog down a hall\" with a few too. I remember 3 different occasions where I banged tall Northern European women (6\'+), who I felt pretty loose in) and I was a bit unsettled by it. Yet all 3 came; very strongly. The only thing I can fathom is that, like you pointed out, the extra-curricular stuff really helped out.

Thanks Chester.
Yes, this was a first experience for me. She was one of the tightest girls I ever laid pre PMMA. I sent her Valentine\'s but she did not reciprocate.

I still think she will come around.

IT has been said here before, most regular non porn women do not really care about the size and esthetics of a man\'s unit. If they like you, you are in...pun intended ....LOL

Foreplay and the use of fingers and tongue (Most Asian women, in Asia, DO NOT like fingers in there) are so important that some men forget how important. A woman has sexual nerves in every corner of her body, if you know where to look you are in....Again, pun intended. LOL.

My experience has been, make them orgasm first and you are in...for the third time, pun intended.