TOPIC: Introduction

thehulk wrote: @4.9\'\' Girth you should shoot for 5.75\'\', anymore and your risking the natural look/feel.

Take a look at my progress thread if you want to see what a 6.6\'\' NBPEL with 6.5+ Inch Girth looks like.

I\'m a pretty solid 5.25\" after a year of pumping. Honestly though I\'ve only been really consistent with it (6x30 min per week, avg) the past 6 months.

I am kinda in the same boat. I\'m married with 4 kids, all were c sec but my wife can be very accommodating or roomy when she is very turned on.
I think I\'m small but based on lurking around here and thunders place I\'m over average. I can\'t believe that looking down on my guy I\'m big but I still don\'t think so.
I\'m 5\'8\" 230 with a fat pad on my public bone. I measure 3 to 3 3/4\" FL and 4 FG. EL is 6.25 eg mid is 5.25 to 5.5 depending upon quality of Erection.
She too has told me I\'m perfect for her but I am the smallest she has been with. One ex had the nickname of tie it in knot who and one was tree stump. NEEDLESS to say I don\'t measure up.

We have an average sex life for years maybe 3 to 4 times a month, it has diminished to once a month maybe once every 6 weeks.

I have made the mistake once while doin it I slipped in very small thin pink vibe with me. She went thru the roof, best orgasms she has ever had with me in her. We always yes always use a vibe on her clit or is during sex.

It was at that time I totally realized she is a size queen. So I started incorporating finger use as a means to satisfy her. She always asks how many I have in and I lie. i tell her 2 sometimes I say 3. Most of the time it\'s 4 sometimes 4 and my thumb. Not the whole fist and always gentle slow strokes.

I have tried manual pe with no luck. I am seriously considering PMMA and stretching. I don\'t want Franken Dick either. I don\'t even want to suggest vagina tightening either.

Dr. C is 2 hours away and with our sex schedule I have time to heal, but if I don\'t say word I\'m sure she will \"feel\" the difference.
I never get oral sex or hand jobs so I\'m not worried about her \"finding out early\"

So is there any other way to get Girth besides PMMA?

Well at 5.5 Girth and you are the smallest she ever had, it\'s very hard to believe. Considering just the odds and statistics of that happening.

I think you could go ahead and get but I would tell your wife bc she is going to now one way or another. She has seen you Dick for a long time and will see the difference visually and physically.

So no bj\'s or Hj\'s huh? Is this common with other married folk? If so, I\'m never getting married...

Good luck with your choice.

Nope no BJ\'s for me. Well maybe 5 in 20 years.
Oddly enough I had a convo with a good female friend today (an ex but still very good platonic friend) about my delimma about to PMMA or not. She said no way your very good size. I wish my hubby had a \"tool\" like yours, we use toys to help out in that department.
That not only stroked the ego but makes me rethink my whole size issue. It is a deep rooted issue since I was a boy.
I was molested by 2 different men for 2 to 3 years from age 9 to maybe 11 or 12. Their junk looked so big and they hurt me so much I have always looked at my Lil guy as puny.
I also was a very late bloomer like sophomore year before I started puberty. So locker room was a bad place for me to be.
Kinda odd I\'ve been with well over 50 chick\'s and not one complaint. (I was a man whore trying to prove to myself i was straight due to being molested, i would screw anything that was willing)
I\'m lucky my Lil guy didn\'t turn green, fall off or get me aids. I consider myself very lucky for almost all of that was unprotected sex.
I give great oral and can go down all night. I figured that\'s why no complaints ever because I would give them theirs before I got mine so to speak.

Gotta ponder this a while I guess

Yeah man it\'s a tough decision. There was just an update in the complication thread and it looks like something is wrong. We don\'t know the details yet but it\'s certainly a reason to be cautious. Or check out my pictures to see a bad outcome and what I\'ve tried to do to fix. 5.5 Girth is big, I think that\'s in the 90 percentile category. Your story sounds similar to mine but not the molested part. So sorry you had to go through that BTW. My story, when I was that age I saw my step brothers penis who was a bit older than me but an early bloomer and clearly huge at like 13-14. kid was a legit 8x6 at 14! FFS! He would flaunt it at every moment walk around with giant boners compared to mine. He had GF\'s give him BJs while I and the other brother was in the room. He was a sex god at 14. This gave me a complex for basically the rest of my life sadly. I was also a late bloomer and didn\'t hit full size until like 18-19 or so. I was 7\" x 5.2ish and I still felt like I had a tiny penis and that perpetuated isto size anxiety and sexual performance issues when I was first having sex, lost my boner bc I couldn\'t get out of my own head I guess. Sucks that some off us are so sensitive to this penis size crap more than others.

Anyways don\'t make a flash decision and think it through and through

I agree w/ Jewdub regarding the size.

Anyone over 5 is over average. So, I\'m not sure how you\'re the smallest she\'s ever seen. Like he said 5.5 puts you in the top 10-20% of most dicks. Unless she made guys show them their dicks before dating/having sex, there\'s no way you could be the smallest.

That\'s interesting that she only delivered by c section but has this much \"space\" in there. Was it always like that? It\'s not you - really... it\'s not. She must have an unusually large vagina.

Buttercups got to 6\" and now his wife doesn\'t even want to have sex - so there\'s a lot of variation in women\'s capacities. I know I\'ve had female friends stop dating / hooking up with certain guys because they were too big.

I don\'t think anyone over 5.25 should get PMMA personally... but I had a shitty experience. I started between 4-4.5. That\'s thin. 5.25 was my goal, which is still above average considering 4.8 is average per condom companies and other research.

I should clarify, we are talking smallest length wise. 2 of my kids are from an ex and 2 from my wife. All 4 were c sec. It\'s a long weird story but in a nutshell here is a small gist of it.
She has always been roomy even back to 1993 when I first did it so to speak. We dated from 93 to 95. She broke up with me for Mr tree trunk sadly for me one conversation we had about him went like this... yeah he was a little big there..... ouch pull the knife out
so back to the story....
That weekend I was at a christmas party. Saw a cute large chested blonde. Got her in her hot tub by saying clothing is not an option set those puppies free. We were both a bit inebriated. We had sex in the hot tub that night. Her new nick name was now bubbles... so after party ended, we spent the night in a hotel and viola 2 kids and a huge headache from psycho bitch from hell.
In 3 years we got married filed for divorce and had one on the way. My aunt tried to get us back together, the one child on the way was a weekend in Catalina on my 38 motoryacht. It\'s called a stabbin cabin for a reason man. Ok back to the story...
Fast forward to my wife. So She dates tree trunk and eventually got married in to him in July 98.
She bumped into me in Oct 98 at my work. We were in a hotel room that night and she left her hubby the next day and we have been together since.
She is also a child molestation survivor but went the other way. I ran towards sex she ran away from it.
So there is disfunction inside her too.

Like I said long weird story and that so doesn\'t even scratch the surface bit may give a brief glimpse into my head.....and my size issues.

Mr tie it in a knot was supposedly close to 10 inches but no thicker than me. I joke and tell her you dont start measuring from his asshole.
Tree trunk was in my eyes perfect 8 and thick. When she talks about his unit her eyes light up a bit. Why she measure both of those guys I\'ll never know. She has never offered to \"measure me\"
She claims both hurt at times for hitting to deep. She also tells me I\'m perfect size for her but, I dunno man when I\'m slowly moving 4 fingers in and out she is in a bliss that I just can\'t give her from my unit.....

This is todays morning wood. Wife is out of town so I could snap a pic. See the fat pad. I measured today again. BPEL 6.25 nbpel 5.5 eg top 5.5 emeg 5.6 BEG 5.6
my guy is so semetrical I\'m worried about becoming Franken Dick. Am I really just being vain? Seriously guys help me out. Do I just need to loose 30 more pounds. Here is a Flaccid one too from this morning

Jhx
What kind of vac pump is working for you, brand wise. I was considering the bath mate....

@lakingfan
You have a very good size. 5.5\" msg is great. With regards to length, you know that the \"tree trunk\" guy was not 10\". Realistically, more like 8\".
If you lost some weight, your fat pad would go down and viola, longer Dick!

Briceb,
Tree trunk was the IMHO perfect as my wife has described him. 8 nbpel and thicker than me. She used a regular ruler.
I am 6.25 BPEL due to a big fat pad I\'m not happy with my nbpel. I\'d be so damn happy to be 6.25 eg. I tried manual pe for a year with negligible results. I guess a .25 gain is a gain.
I had issues with red spots, a couple of bulges/bruising on the right side, and there is some discoloration below the glans on the right side. Visible When I Am flacid, See Flacid pic.
There was some loss of sensation so it was just not worth it for me to continue pe manually. That\'s why I started looking into PMMA and pumps.
I see some guys get great results like new, so, mustang and some others here.
Maybe just maybe I\'ll find what works for my physiology and I gain some size...