Any gent who is curious about escorts should explore the well written novel by Paulo Coelho, Eleven Minutes. The novel is a journey for both men and women alike. The main heroine\'s story is actually a collection of several different courtesans. I think this conversation has evolved without my participation to be one of a pragmatic, confused moralistic conversation and i know some gents drink their fundamentalism kool-aid every sunday and b/c of their religious laws which have influenced social laws have a negative opinion of escorts. When I use to work in the hospital we had a nurse practitioner who i befriended, we were close, and over several wine glasses at her apartment she opened up to me about her past. Escorting helped her make her dreams come true, I personally think she had an incredible bed side manner pun-intended which provided her a measure of confidence on how to read people. She was remarkably good at that. She was older than me so it never materialized into a lasting connection. I think if we exclude law and religion, it\'s been one of the oldest practices and I think b/c of our unique american culture, discussing the function or establishing a respectable tone about escorts can be almost rare or impossible. I don\'t think its something that should go away (i\'m a libertarian), i don\'t have children, but if i did i would hope that they would have enough self respect for their bodies that they would not rent their sex organs to strangers. Theres sex and then theres sacred sex, which most of us probably call \"making love\". I think one can facilitate certain connections with an escort, but its not to your benefit. Minus the health risks to yourself, not the sex worker, but the availability of the sex worker makes escorts a dangerous hobby, because the more you entertain the hobby, the harder it is to satisfy your mind and body with a form of sacred sex if at any point in your life that is important to you. The escort by function is sexual release in the form of orgasm or fantasy, to many their biological toilets where the client who covets the fantasy of a Pornstar experience can satisfy their craving. Real connections for the most part are artificial with lots of women, the working girl and non working girl. A woman wants a man who can provide; financial security, emotional stability, no stability (lol yeah!), religious stability, to explore a dream that may or may not exist with you. But if a woman has her shit together she likely wants a little bit of all of that (not always involving religion). In the end, the man involved in dating or marriage is subscribing to the largest emotional and financial investment he can ever get involved with, and anyone who has ever dated 1 woman knows that there\'s always drama. With an escort, if you don\'t get involved with her and her drama, it could be a great way for one to vent out the emotional and sexual urges. But theres a lot of assholes out there that hurt women and being a escort can be dangerous for them, not to mention escorts can be dangerous too because of their values and dangerous association. Having regular sex with escorts can not be labeled, and I don\'t think the practice of the hobby needs to be explained from a sociological point of view. But if the escorting hobby is something you are curious about, do not feel guilty about this curiosity, but at the same time ask yourself will like with any choice, how will this decision affect me in the future. If you are short term thinker, then curiosity will win every time, if you are a long term thinker maybe you\'ll be able to control your sexual urges. I tip my hat to you if you can. But going back to the book Eleven minutes, it\'s a book that I recommend, its entertaining, and enlightening if you have an open mind. These women like all women deserve respect especially since they\'re providing a very intimate service to a man at their own expense. Be safe, learn to live with your choices, because if you are an anxious man, your guilt will mind fuck you. escorting is legal in mexico and most of latin america, not to mention nevada, so if your curious exercise your curiosity were its legal. I\'m not anxious, i\'m borderline lazy, just be safe and control your creampie fantasies and wear a condom especially to the
PMMA gents we tend to rupture our condoms pretty regularly. And Stallon\'s scripted speech is one thing, scripted, write your own script and live with the decisions you make. Just remember free will doesn\'t mean it\'s safe to free drive either. Bueno suerte
PS- Most of us need the reminder that the only difference between getting off with porn and hiring a escort is the zero risk of contracting an std or having to cough up money. But you\'re still subscribing to prostitution, just a more socially acceptable form of it.
-CHL