TOPIC: So, having a big(er) dick doesn't matter if nobody wants to sleep w/ you

Yeah, jlmb it was a really bad bad vacation. I got home and ordered a massive pizza and pigged out duty free chocolate. That\'s about how bad it got. I was still miserable & asked my psychiatrist friend for ECT so I could forget the whole thing ever happened...lol.

I erased some of the other stories, but I think my expectations were too high...not bc of the Dick (I\'m still average - but at least it\'s average finally , not small and bent) - but I\'m in better shape & have more friends in the area now...and my 5+ prior trips there have been REALLY fun. This was like an epic fail on every level. Part of the problem is apps like grindr are ruining normal social interaction everywhere. I erased that part of the story. They change how people interact & also how flaky people are. I\'ve had 90% negative and 10% positive experiences on that thing.

I erased this story - but this bears repeating on this particular board. So, I met one guy and he had these shitty too-thick too-tight condoms, and I was like - no I need my own condoms cuz I will lose my boner with those - and he\'s like \"oh come on you\'re Dick is not that big - you don\'t need special condoms\" ... ugh. After surgery and 2 rounds of PMMA! And again, of course, I was bigger than him. (I\'m 6 x 5 basically - in real inches, not gay inches - he was thinner and shorter). I don\'t need magnums, but not even viagra can keep it up with a freaking Rain-Delay-Baseball-field-tarp condom. That was just incident 1 of 10.

Dude theres alot of sassy gay guys out there, I know its hard but you have to kind of get a tough skin about it. Enough people get facial stuff done that its nothing to be ashamed of, especially for anti-aging purposes. Just own it if confronted, and try to not go overboard if your concerned. You can give it right back to most of them.

Restoration....Hang in there. Do not take everything that everyone says seriously.....Some are just kidding with you....Take care of yourself....Fuck them (no, don\'t do that!)......If they do not like you or your looks, then they are not worth knowing you.
Good luck, man.

Yeah, there\'s a lot more sex on average - but a poster here said he had sex w/ 125 women after PMMA ... so I guess it can happen in the hetero world too. (And that is way more than any year I have on record - ever). I think it is generally easier to hook up, particularly if you\'re good looking and have a good body (not that I excel that much in either area - but at least I don\'t have saggy boobs). If you think about the numbers, if someone has been single for 10 years, they\'d easily have over 100 partners, if they wanted to have sex 10 times a year. A lot of gay relationships are open and I\'d say up to 75% of couples cheat (or are open) - so if you really wanted to have sex every day you could... but eventually you\'d run out of people. A \"fuck buddy\" situation rarely works out bc the guys I know like variety too much, especially in larger cities (which again is why you can hook up with a lot of different guys). Apps and bath houses greatly facilitate going from no sex to 10 guys in a week...both of which aren\'t precisely available in the straight world - though plenty of straight people hook up online & go to swingers parties, etc... so who knows. Gay men tend to be incredibly picky these days (largely thanks to online dating and selection criteria) - to the point of mental exhaustion - because they know everyone is so slutty, it\'s easy to keep sorting your potential hook ups to find a 100% match rather than settle for an 80%.