TOPIC: So, having a big(er) dick doesn't matter if nobody wants to sleep w/ you

Restoration wrote: I had high expectations bc I go to this city every year and every time I meet some one (or two or three) guys that I have a good time with... sometimes all at once. lol. But THIS year - after I finally fixed my broken Dick surgically (december) AND got it filled with almost 50 cc of PMMA (in 2 rounds), I thought I could really let loose and have fun. So, I went to the gym 2x as much and made sure everything else was going good from a superficial gay standpoint (hence the facial filler - but also haircut, tan etc). Unfortunately, this year - I only met absolute cunty bitchy queens who had attitudes so disproportionate to their looks that I thought I was in the twilight zone. And, nobody was into me. Nobody! Fat old men with saggy boobs were giving me dirty looks. So, I don\'t know wtf happened.

Wow. Old men with saggy boobs...Looks like you have it worse than the hetros, old women with saggy boobs and butts....

lol... yea those guys can be the worst of all... sometimes. You also get the anorexic looking ones - so I prefer the fat ones visually bc at least they don\'t look like they\'re gonna die.

Anyway, it\'s so funny i started this thread bc my vacation sucked so bad & I couldn\'t get laid really (well twice - but seriously...for the investment it was crap) - but in the time between when I started this thread & now, i\'ve had sex w/ like a dozen other guys. I probably shouldn\'t post it cuz it\'ll end up with an STD scare again, but whatever - at least I know I am not a fugly monster. And, my Dick is still bigger than 2/3rds of them...odd for being 6x5, but I went 4 years being smaller than 99% of guys so it\'s fun. I am taking a break though...no sex last weekend. Last night, I had sex but I didn\'t intend to...it just became available. lol. The crappy thing is the hot ones (like last night) are ALWAYS like \"see ya ho\" and the average ones always wanna be my live in wife...ugh. I guess straight people deal with this too..? Not to mention, the hot ones almost always have partners. 80% of the time.

(yea i am a total slut pig...but I lost FOUR YEARS of normal Dick)

@ restoration.. I see you have sex in bulk numbers meaning 6 here 10 there. And I understand because guys are very sexual and want it. So it may be sort of easier to have sex as a gay man. I wanted to know with gay guys is it normal for someone sex partner amount to be in the hundreds?

Yeah, there\'s a lot more sex on average - but a poster here said he had sex w/ 125 women after PMMA ... so I guess it can happen in the hetero world too. (And that is way more than any year I have on record - ever). I think it is generally easier to hook up, particularly if you\'re good looking and have a good body (not that I excel that much in either area - but at least I don\'t have saggy boobs). If you think about the numbers, if someone has been single for 10 years, they\'d easily have over 100 partners, if they wanted to have sex 10 times a year. A lot of gay relationships are open and I\'d say up to 75% of couples cheat (or are open) - so if you really wanted to have sex every day you could... but eventually you\'d run out of people. A \"fuck buddy\" situation rarely works out bc the guys I know like variety too much, especially in larger cities (which again is why you can hook up with a lot of different guys). Apps and bath houses greatly facilitate going from no sex to 10 guys in a week...both of which aren\'t precisely available in the straight world - though plenty of straight people hook up online & go to swingers parties, etc... so who knows. Gay men tend to be incredibly picky these days (largely thanks to online dating and selection criteria) - to the point of mental exhaustion - because they know everyone is so slutty, it\'s easy to keep sorting your potential hook ups to find a 100% match rather than settle for an 80%.