TOPIC: The Talk - previous cocks...

Either the average for penis size is much larger than statistically believed, the women we are sleeping with are having dozens of previous
lovers, or the women are lying (or at least exaggerating) about the endowments of their previous lovers.
I personally believe that many women will exaggerate the size of their previous lovers as a means of controlling us. If we ask them about the \"size\" of their previous lovers, they know that this is a vulnerable point for us and she will use it to her advantage.
If you were the biggest and best lover she ever had (and she tells you this), then you are holding a lot of cards...But if she has you second guessing yourself, then she is in control.
Just my 2 cents



And just a side note...How is that any women would be so callous as to talk about how \"huge\" their previous ex lovers were with somebody they are in an intimate relationship with? Could you imagine if a woman asked you how her vagina felt? Would you say wistfully , \"well, I have had much tighter\" .
Women are very aware of the penis size insecurity men have...It\'\'s all over the Internet , penis size pill, enhancement, viagra, etc....if she asked you if her breasts were big enough, would you be as boneheaded as to say, \"Well my last girlfriend had \'F\' cups, my nickname for her was \'big guns\'\"?
There is such a double standard for men to have to measure up in this regard...

messageman wrote: Either the average for penis size is much larger than statistically believed, the women we are sleeping with are having dozens of previous lovers, or the women are lying (or at least exaggerating) about the endowments of their previous lovers. I personally believe that many women will exaggerate the size of their previous lovers as a means of controlling us. If we ask them about the \"size\" of their previous lovers, they know that this is a vulnerable point for us and she will use it to her advantage. If you were the biggest and best lover she ever had (and she tells you this), then you are holding a lot of cards...But if she has you second guessing yourself, then she is in control. Just my 2 cents And just a side note...How is that any women would be so callous as to talk about how \"huge\" their previous ex lovers were with somebody they are in an intimate relationship with? Could you imagine if a woman asked you how her vagina felt? Would you say wistfully , \"well, I have had much tighter\" . Women are very aware of the penis size insecurity men have...It\'\'s all over the Internet , penis size pill, enhancement, viagra, etc....if she asked you if her breasts were big enough, would you be as boneheaded as to say, \"Well my last girlfriend had \'F\' cups, my nickname for her was \'big guns\'\"? There is such a double standard for men to have to measure up in this regard...

Pretty much all of this. This question is more likely to backfire than to yield anything of value.

ALL of my exes told me I had a great penis BEFORE we broke up! and this is when I had no PMMA (I was about 5.9\" EL and 4.95\" EG). ONLY to later on, when we broke up, they would some how mention the new guy they were going with had a bigger penis than mine. This was a mind fuck and a deliberate shot at my ego. They were angry I never went back to them after we broke up. I never can go back to an ex after her having another guy, just not my style.

I have always brought up the size of their pussy and/or breasts to put them on equal grounds when the question of Dick size came up. now that I am bigger I really do not care if they say they had a bigger Dick and if they wanted bigger I change the girl not my Dick size. I know now that I am not the biggest but big enough for most normal women out there. So if they say they like/want bigger, they can go to hell and I care less and this is very true for me.

As MM said, if they say they had bigger dicks then they are messing with the guys mind and it is a very malicious thing to do to their own BF/Husband.

So, if they say they had bigger ones, tell them you had tighter pussies and bigger boobs and watch their insecurities grow! Trust me it works!

My present lady who I like very much has small boobs and not a very tight stomach but we have a superb sex life, I would never hurt her by saying anything negative about her body. I really do not care since over all we have a great relationship.
Now, if she cheats on me, then all bets are off and she will know for sure about my other beauties with bigger boobs and smaller vaginas!!!

Again why do guys put themselves through this? Who cares , Us, we are the ones that torture ourselves! No one ever points out that the women left the supposedly big Cock and is with us now, if his Dick was so good she would have over looked the bad and stuck it out, but obviously dicks are not everything to most women! If we keep swimming I our insecurities instead of working on positive things in our lives , we will always be misurable ! I do not discount the insecurities but don\'t drowned yourself in it! My brother is hung and he can\'t pay women to stay with him, not bad looking or anything just has nothing to give but a big Dick!

I totally agree with the concept of this being an available or potential power play on the part of women. In my case I definitely know my wife tried to keep this fact from me for a long time and only under the condition of being tipsy and at my own prodding did she reveal the truth. I know she definitely regrets telling me the truth. I also agree with the comment that we are the ones hung up on the subject as far as insecurity. I also know my wife is just as insecure about her own body image so we aren\'t alone in this battle of insecurity. I\'ve also always believed that if you can change something about yourself that will make you feel better about you then I see no wrong in that path. At the end of the day we should only go through with this procedure because it will help us feel better about ourselves. Ill re-iterate ignorance is bliss. Chances are if you are visiting this site then you will probably be better off not knowing. The women in our lives that may have had larger penises before us didn\'t necessarily choose to leave those with the big dicks. There\'s also the cases that those guys chose not to be with them. We should strive to be happy with ourselves and I think our loved ones and not just us will benifit from the changes we make. Sorry for another long winded message. Worked off today and enjoying a whiskey and coke!

I agree mostly, but if your wife was so hung up on a huge Cock being the deciding point she would have moved on until she found one. So even if the huge cocks dumps the women, she would continue her quest for huge Cock and not waist her time with us small dicks. Unless that is not the most important thing! I do not discount these feeling about not being man enough ( our version big enough) but I do not think it is healthy to swim in it! Not only does it put ourselves through hell it really is not becoming when our self esteem is in the toilet!! So get PMMA as a last resort but also try not to measure your manhood by the length of our dicks only. Hell I may someday get PMMA, but I have taken a chill pill on doing so and have been working in many other things that make us men! It has really helped my head and in the bedroom. My wife loves the new confidence etc! I have been measuring my manhood , not with the tape measure , but with more of who I am. I know it isn\'t everything but it helped my head!

Honzee, curious if you did what mustang said and watch some big Dick porn with your girl to see her reactions

We always hear about how it\'s us guys who are completely obsessed with penis size....Have you ever flipped through a women\'s magazine out of curiosity? Practically every issue has an article or something related to penis size. Back when I was a teenager and developing my obsession over penis size, that was the main source of info. And more often than not, the info would reinforce then idea that many women indeed enjoyed a bigger a penis.
Now, how often do you see a \'men\'s magazine\' discuss various sizes of breasts and the benefits of each one? Zero
When I first started working and would hang out with co-workers after work, my female co-workers would get \'tipsy\'...and what do you think they would talk about. Yes, how \"huge\" their boyfriend\'s penises were (they were never average)....I had a black co-worker who used to get sexually harassed by your supervisor (after work) whenever she would get \'tipsy\'. It would always be the same thing...\"Is it true what they say about black men?\" She then would talk about how her friend\'s Nigerian boyfriend had a 10 Inch Cock...and how that \"kept her in line\", as she took a long drag on a cigarette. How do you think it would fly if I asked my Chinese subordinate \"if it was true, that asian women were all tight\"?
Oh, another double standard example... I remember being a new worker at a finance company...One of my colleagues (whom I didn\'t know well at all) talked about how she \"loved\" David Duchnovy (the guy from X files) . I asked why? And she said verbatim \"besides the fact that he is gorgeous and has a huge Cock\"? We were were alone in my office at the time, and she wasn\'t even trying to funny.
Anyway...Just thought I would rant a bit.

MM, Buddy, you have a bigger Dick than stupid David Duchnovy, I am certain....you should never ever be insecure about your size. Please do a check and see it for real, you are huge by any one\'s standard! I guarantee that ANY woman would love your Dick even most size queens!!!!

Dick size does matter in some cases, but it is not the wholly grail of a man! Most women, bar size queens, will be turned on by other attributes than just penis size. Sure, women talk about it a lot but it really is one piece of a pie that women think about when it comes to their man.

We should be men, be proud of our manhood, move forward and achieve our goals no matter what some women think or say in stupid tabloid mags. If some women put penis size first, like I said before, change the women not your Dick.....

I know I have a good size Dick now and all it did is cement my confidence in my self, it did help but it did not create who I am now!

Let\'s put things in prospective guys, come on!

Women exaggerate on size dimensions as some men about how many girls they banged. Talking about this matter is a waste of time. I myself have an average size (6x5) I been with over 100 women and never had failed to please a single one. The reason of me being here its for the curiosity of having a bigger one that feels natural but if it\'s not possible then I am happy with what I have.

Great comments messageman, the whole Dick size thing has entered into pop culture in a really destructive way.

Most women aren\'t really observant about Dick sizes, especially between ones in the average category. Additionally, its all based on their experiences, and can be very relatively.

Also, what they\'ll say can be consciously or unconsciously changed due to how they feel about the guy.

My ex, whatever still thinks and tells people I\'m 8.5\", I\'m not going to correct her.

Great discussion men. All very good points.

MustGetBigger wrote: Honzee, curious if you did what mustang said and watch some big Dick porn with your girl to see her reactions

Haven\'t had the opportunity yet. Life\'s been crazy but it\'s on my agenda...