TOPIC: Was I wrong or asking for too much?

So Ive been talking to my ex.. \" yeah I know\" not going back to that.. But we were talking and the fact came up that she was upset that I gave her an ultimatum because I didn\'t like the fact that she was still Hanging out with her ex BF\'s family even though I told her on more than one occasion that I didn\'t feel comfortable with it. Even caught her chillin with her ex on one occasion and she said nothing happened and she didn\'t answer because she didn\'t want me to be upset.. Anyway going forward after that she said he didn\'t live there where she goes \"which he doesn\'t and live with his girlfriend\". But still I knew he was around from time to time and I just wanted her to break her ties with his family all together. Besides that these people are very small minded and ghetto and think about nothing but weed, getting high, and drinking.

Funny thing is I lived a mile away from where her ex family lived and she never made the effort to come and see me because she said she never comes that fard down and don\'t feel safe which I thought was BS.. Anyway I want to know was I being unreasonable telling her I didn\'t want her Hanging around her exes family and cutting them off? Not only just because it was her exes people but because the way that they are.. Even up to the time we broke up and now she continue to add friends of friends of her ex. And it still pisses me off tip this day even though we been split up for a month. But be honest.. was I asking to much from her to cut ties?

You have to move on. Let this one go; she\'s bad news. Cut all ties and pretend that she no longer exists in your workd.
Stay strong.
Eventually you will meet somebody (who deserves you), and you will understand this. Right now you are probably just feeling the emptiness. That\'s why it is so hard.

I agree with MM...

She never seemed to meet her end of the bargain so if I were you, I wouldn\'t concern yourself with \"what you could have done or were you wrong for asking too much, etc.\" It\'s just more reason to have her on your mind. This thread is proof that she still lingers, and that isn\'t fair to you. Snip her from your mind for good buddy, there is no point in dwelling in the past/on her and it may just hold you back from exploring new waters.

Oh, and you shouldn\'t bother talking with her. It will only make these thoughts & feelings resurface. Like I said before, politely cut her out of your life and move on.