TOPIC: Sex with condom

How much sensation is reduced having sex with condom. I\'ve only had sex with a condom. I was told the sensation difference is nigh and day.

Also is the act of intercourse really pleasurable? When I\'m having intercourse, I don\'t feel any or much pleasurable feelings. It feels like my Dick is numb

I havn\'t had surgery and I cant or very rarely orgasm with a condom

Is it be side alot of us had surgery on our penis that we lost sensation and sensitivity? My friend told me there wasn\'t much of a difference with or without a condom. He felt pleasure and even orgasm from a bj with a condom on. Makes me feel bad

medilook wrote: How much sensation is reduced having sex with condom. I\'ve only had sex with a condom. I was told the sensation difference is nigh and day. Also is the act of intercourse really pleasurable? When I\'m having intercourse, I don\'t feel any or much pleasurable feelings. It feels like my Dick is numb

Why dont you just find a steady girlfriend so you wont have to wear one? Pretty simple. Unless ur one of THOSE guys that have to wear a condom no matter what thinking everyone is infected.

yes condoms suck!!!!!

I just had sex and couldn\'t finish again. She was getting tired. I had to finish my self off but took a lot of work and concentration. Sighs

Before my PMMA, I always swore by wearing Durex Avanti Bare if I absolutely had to wear a condom. I believe they are non latex and the thinnest on the market (according to one of the condom websites that gives measurements of all condoms they sell).

Luckily for me, they don\'t fit anymore, and even the Magnums are tight. I haven\'t started experimenting with larger size condoms yet to give you any advice in that category if you need it.

My friend\'s friends, friend said using skyn condoms are the best, and I agree, just cause a condom is thin doesn\'t mean you will feel more if the material is like cling film or sometimes the thinnest condoms can\'t fit. Skyn condoms are not latex but feel like latex, and a bit thinner, but not the thinnest, but really good.

The friend I mentioned above isn\'t Circumcised.

Well I\'m not Circumcised. I do masturbate at least once a day but honestly I don think that has anything to do with it. My friends says he masturbate twice a day and has no problem finishing inside a girl but he doesn\'t use a condom. Idk I need to experience sex without a condom but not sure that\'ll ever happen.

What you are experiencing is very common. I feel nothing with a condom and thus derive little pleasure. I was speaking to a friend only yesterday who says he has the exact same problem.

If you stopped jerking off and having any sex for while, combined with wearing something to cover your glans, your penis will feel far more sensitive when you do resume sexual activity.

I have never been able to finish with a condom on either, even back when I had less Girth. Did you lose sensitivity due to penis surgery? I\'m not sure if you said in this or other threads that you had surgery or if you were asking what our experiences were.

Suggestions I\'ve been given include:
1.) get a girl friend--easier said than done for some right.
2.) other suggestions related to masturbation: do it less often; use a fleshlight (vs. your kung fu grip); loosen your grip; try wearing a condom (to grow more comfortable); do it less often; do it less often.

Abstaining is the only thing that really works for me though. Take a break from masturbation for a few days, perhaps a week or more if you can tolerate it. As a result you should be a lot more sensitive, you should be able to finish faster, and if you should be able to shoot a bigger load--which often impresses the ladies. Longest I\'ve ever \"gone without\" was 6 weeks at basic training. My god, after that I was a loaded gun and shot the biggest load of my life (record still stands) after just a few strokes.

Also, why didn\'t you have the lady help you finish (ie hand job), you\'re paying her right? If you still can\'t finish with an (I\'m assuming) attractive lady servicing you manually, after having already provided oral and vaginal, then you should consider it being one or a combination of issues including masturbation (frequency and technique) or psychological.