TOPIC: Paying for sex

I\'ve paid for sex before. I don\'t have a problem with it, but it just doesn\'t really work for me. I can understand how people could become addicted to it, but in my case I found paying for it damaged my ego to the point I couldn\'t really enjoy the experience much. I did it 2 or 3 times and the girls were always attractive and surprisingly good company just to hang out with, but ultimately I didn\'t find it sufficiently rewarding. I don\'t regret it though and the few times I\'ve done it have enriched my life to some extent, as they are experiences I wont forget. They weren\'t good sexually, but I enjoy thinking back about the whole process involved in researching and meeting these girls. It was actually lots of fun and I experienced a constant state of nervous excitement from the moment I made the call, to the moment they left. In fact that feeling is worth paying for alone.

If it wasn\'t for my penis issues I doubt I would have ever even considered seeing an escort, so you could say it\'s one of the few good things that came out of my penis related problems. Basically I\'ve tried it, didn\'t enjoy the sexual side much, but I\'m glad to have had the experience and think most guys would enjoy it. I caution that when I say \"most guys would enjoy it\", I mean in the right circumstance and certainly am not suggesting anyone jump in their car and rush off the street corner to pick up some crack whore!

Thehulk - I would chase girls, but when your 28 and have aggressive hair loss with a big bald spot in the back of your head, your confidence is shiit. Whenever I\'m in public, I always wear a hat. I definitely don\'t like the way I look bald. I haven\'t gotten used to it.

All These girls are Asian, and I would say they are average to a little above average, but Im attracted to Asian women. I like the fact that everytime I go, its a different girl, so Its never the same old same old. I heard that being in a relationship, sEx can get mundane and boring. Although a relationship is more then just about having sex.

I do want to be in a relationship, but I just don\'t have the confidence in my looks to go out and pursue or even online dating. Fuckking hairloss is a bitchh!

Shave it all off, bald is cool!!!

Haven\'t been able to do that yet

@medilook: I relate. Here\'s my story:At age 21, my hairline was noticeably receding and it severely messed up my confidence (which was not very strong to begin with). It really pissed me off, and by age 24 I decided to take matters into my own hands: I told my hair you can\'t quit, you\'re fired. I began consistently shaving my head (not bicking it, just using electric clippers) at least once a month, and gradually found my self-image transforming. I no longer felt like I had anything to hide, and was bravely facing the world with my purposefully-shaved head. Once I no longer yearned for that full head of hair and accepted myself as a shaved badass, I began to like what I saw when I looked in the mirror. I developed more a firm self-belief in my attractiveness sans hair, and ultimately began yielding better results in the dating scene. My progression went as follows (it ain\'t pretty):Sporadically visiting call girls and a steady diet of masturbation to porn >>Drunken one-nighters with fat and/or unattractive women >> FWB deals with not fat/unattractive women albeit with low self-esteems >> FWB deals with attractive/hot women with low self-esteems (including several that were insane and one that was a stalker) >> 1-2 month relationships with decent, attractive women that fizzled out because of my commitment issues >> My first marriage (which lasted 8 years, and as it was ending I resumed my diet of call girls and masturbation to porn) >> My second marriage (which has thus far gone swimmingly). All of this I credit to shaving my ratty, thinning hair off of my beautiful bald white head. Confidence aside, there are many women who like bald men. You hear such women toss around the names of bald actors they think are hot like Bruce Willis and John Malkovich. Then you have the general population of women who are just turned on by confidence. It\'s your weakened confidence that\'s holding you back, not your hair. Free yourself and get rid of that hair. Get used to your new badass self, hit the dating scene, get laid, build up your confidence and then thank me later.

Uhm no Hulk, I just live in the real world... and it has been the real world since nearly the beginning of man kind, that\'s why it the worlds oldest profession. I am atheist so don\'t have the same qualms as religious people and being european, we are more open minded to sex.