TOPIC: Small penis girl sex help/ advice ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!

This post is old. Im almost an Inch bigger at 6 inches length since november and 1/8th thicker.

Great post Speed1234!

I would like to share my experience with you. It is going to sound very familiar to yours.
I have posted multiple times across the forums talking about my inadequacies.
I even got surgery done a few months ago, thinking it would cure all my problems.

I had sex once in my adult life ( I am 31)

A few months ago I started dating a girl at work. A beautiful one.
It started off slowly (on purpose,coz I knew I was going to have a little fun, no sex and come up with a reason to break up once it got to sex).

And per script, we broke up. I got surgery, ended up losing some length ironically and lost complete faith.
But I knew I liked her, I knew she still liked me. We got back together. She asked me why we\'ve never had sex and told me I had 2 weeks to make up my mind about sex or we are done.

Anyway, this time I thought to myself (based on the advice from members on this board. See my other posts) ,I was going to try and not worry too much about it and just go for it.
Mind you, my Dick sill hurt from surgery, I had lost almost an Inch of my original length, I had ZERO sexual experience, this girl is a co worker, we hadn\'t had sex for months. I don\'t think it could have gotten any more stressful than this.

A few weeks ago, I took her to dinner, had a couple of drinks, went to her apt , started feeling her, took her hand put it on my Dick. Next thing you know I am getting a hand job while I finger her and play with her pussy..

She said she didn\'t want to have sex that night, but said it was the best pussy touching she has had in a long time.

A week after that, the story repeats. I take her to my apt, she gives me a blowjob. Same night, we have sex. The next morning we have sex again. Somehow I was able to use all the knowledge I have gained from porn and apply that during sex.

We\'ve continued to have sex. Every day pretty much . Just came back from a trip with her. Had so much sex. All kinds. In the bathroom, oral on the beach, doggy style, 69, in the morning, after her afternoon nap.

I REALLY like her, and she REALLY likes me. That may have been a reason why I was able to do what I did.
She says , she has had the best sex of her life with me, that she has never felt hornier.

Now for the size issues. I was 5x5 before surgery, I lost some length post surgery and am around 4.5x5 now.
My Flaccid is about the same as yours. ( a little less Girth).

She says my size is perfect for her. I don\'t know if she means it or is just saying it to make me feel better. Even though she made a little fun sometimes, calling it the \"little one\".

What I can tell you is that the pleasure I saw on her face and her eyes when I gave her oral, fingered her , had sex with her wasn\'t fake.
And the passion with which she returned all the favors wasn\'t fake either.

Bottom line is, you may never be able to get rid of your insecurities, but go ahead and do yourself a favor, don\'t show it to her. Be confident, say nice and dirty things to her, make her feel good about her, kiss her , explore all of her body, be patient , be open. Indulge in foreplay, use your fingers, your tongue. See what she likes. Give her more of that.

My girl cums when I use my fingers. I can make it happen every time now. I gave her oral the other night (I was hesitant for 2-3 weeks because I didn\'t find it very appealing to me). But she loved it and I have started enjoying doing it.

I still wish I was a little bigger and will continue to work on it. But I wont let my life pass me by with this fear and insecurity anymore.
I hope I can maintain a long term relationship with her, but if that doesn\'t work out its okay. There are may more girls out there.

I am sure there are girls out there that obsess about sex and size. I think I am smart enough to filter them out and work on the rest.

Personally , I think guys with small dicks (at least in their heads) , end up giving more pleasure OVERALL to many girls because they try and make up for their perceived smallness. I think it is not a bad situation for the girl to be in.

Again, my advice is coming from my experiences with my only real sexual partner and years of worrying. But my friend, it is my suggestion to try and put up a confident front and make her feel good about her body while you feel it. And remember it may not always about the penetrative sex. Add a GOOD amount of touching, licking and kissing in there too.

Hope you have fun in your quest.

I got to feel her pussy yesterday. still havent let her ouch my crotch yet. do you think she thinks thats weird? im afraid my hard on will feel too small for her. do you guys think i should neve let her see me flacid?

@New1inch,
Forget the past,
From what you described about your current story seems to have everything to go right.
Forget the penis factor, think only in the encounter with the Indian girl.
100% of women like a man who makes you feel good.
If you and treat you well, and she is not right with you, change your partner and do this repeatedly until not worrying about what others think.
Good luck !!!!!!!!!!

You all have been very helpful. Just wish I wasn\'t dealt a shitty hand... Lol.. But you all have given me great ideas I can use. Like I said its been about 4 almost 5 years since I had sex because i avoid it at all costs. so I\'m very nervous. Last time I had sex I couldn\'t get up because I was thinking too much. Plus the girl was loose so I couldn\'t feel her.

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Newiinch
You can get some good generic medication at secure tabs and all day chemists.
And regarding positions. Putting her legs over your shoulders guarantees maximum depth penetration.
Best of luck and let us know how it goes.

damn i wish there were more latinas in the uk!! i dont even know what perrito papi, por favor means coolhand but it sounds good!

You also have to realise shes probably gonna feel nervous herself. just relax, dont get too drunk lol! just a few to loosen up. and foreplay is your friend. remember you cant cook a chicken without heating the oven up first!!

WT

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@New1inch,
Very nice man !!!

Make a day out with her one day worthwhile and relaxing, treat her like a Queen.
Be a lover to her, make her much oral sex, suck pussy, Kiss the body, gently care her nipples treat her like a real lady.

No intelligent woman, speak evil of a lover who cared to satisfy her.
Stay worried will not help you.
Do you his priority, life is one, enjoy it.
If she chose to go out with you is because she sensed something special in you.
If she has the same age as you, I think unlikely at the time of the sexual encounter, she will analyze your penis too.
Most important for the woman and her feel that you want.
how?
Only you will know how to act right now.
I Have taken Levitra odt 20mg before sex with strangers, I found very good.
Relax friend, venture out a bit and not worry about what others will think.
This helps Erection.
Life is on.
God luck!!!

Thanks guys. You really helped me out mentally. It\'s just discouraging seeing people with 6,7, and 8 inches saying they are small. I really hope she enjoys it. What positions should I use that\'s good for my size? Also anyone know where online I can buy good generic Viagra from? You can on it to me if you don\'t wanna leave it here. Also can any of you recommend a good pump? I want to add something extra to my Jelqing routine. This may sound stupid but should I make sure I\'m Erect before she ever see my penis so she can see how small my Flaccid is? Also she tries to grab my crotch should I just let her do it? I\'m just embarrassed that there\'s nothing much to feel while I\'m soft.

New1inch.
You have a statistically average-sized penis; the problem is inside your head not down below.
The more I reflect on my journey, the more I realize how physiologically messed up I was (I am).

Sure, there are size queens out there, but they are in the minority...
Don\'t let your life pass you by. You\'re 25 years old, healthy, and a hot chick is into you.
Let nature take its course.

Very wise words SO.

I have avoided sex for yrs at a time new1inch, to the point where good friends were asking if i was gay. which done my head in even more. then when i did get a girl back i\'d be that nervous i\'d mess it up. its a vicious circle. Have the same issue with a barmaid in our bar. shes a bit of a slut and wants yours truly. which everyone in the bar knows. do i sleep with her and risk messing up? To the point where i can never walk in said bar again?

Listen until i came here i thought i has the smallest Dick in the world and i was on my own to deal with it. But like SO said your in the average bracket and there are guys smaller who are married with families. Imagine if they hadnt of slept with their future wives. They obviously must of as they are married etc. i am the same size as you mate and have exactly the same insecurities. But please dont take the same route as i did and completely avoid sex because it get harder and harder to do it once it comes along. JUST BANG HER lol.

Ive just come to the point where i just think fuck it. Just smash anything you can get. Wine, dine her and eat a viagra if your that nervous to start you up. Plenty of foreplay and get yours pal. Good luck

Will

While my EQ has been hit-or-miss lately, on my \"best day\" I hover around a 5x5, and am genuinely pleased by how decent it is.

Listen bro, if she really digs you, you\'ll be just fine. Coax her up with dinner, drinks, movie, all the cliche stuff. Make out some, and be sensual. Be yourself. If she puts any stock into \"you have to be bigger than 5x5 for her to be satisfied,\" she isn\'t worth your time. You can\'t be upset with yourself if she ends up being the slut in this equation.

You don\'t have a small penis. I\'m not even sure you know what it means to have a small penis. You are indeed within the range of average, so if she ends up fucking 100 other guys, she\'ll remember you \"not as small, but as normal.\" That should be comforting. If there is anything I could recommend prior to sex, is to ensure you have good blood flow. Eat healthy, exercise, don\'t smoke. Perhaps some sex aid enhancements like horny goat weed (never used it but heck, always an option) to ensure an even \"fuller\" boner, and you should be good to go.

EQ & Stamina > Size

Just bang her. And besides, don\'t forget that she may not have the biggest tits or the phattest ass or the prettiest face or the straightest teeth... she probably will have some of her own issues going into the bedroom. Do yourself and her a favor, and leave all those insecurities at the door. It will be time for her to enjoy you for who you are and time for you to enjoy her for who she is. Good luck, and I don\'t think you\'ll even need it