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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273068233

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Dude, I did the bartend in college thing and then I stayed on for 5 more years. I had gone through a breakup and after I was done feeling sorry for myself I was only concerned with having a good time, and thats exactly what I did. I had a ton of fun, and had experiences that I would not have otherwise done. I had lots of crazy friends and we got into a lot of crazy shit. I also was involved with a good amount of really hot babes. These girls were way more attractive than the girls my other friends who had taken professional careers were dating.
Here\'s what sucks though. Both the places I worked went out of business in the shitty economy. In fact, a lot of bars turnover, and if the name on the building doesn\'t change the management will. I work in the restaurant business still. I\'m a good looking guy, but once you get to a certain age (late 20\'s) you have to have a career, or it doesn\'t matter how attractive you are to women. As a guy you can always date younger if you want. I would advise taking a career opportunity because once you get to your late 20\'s early 30\'s you can date any age you want. Better to have a stable career than to still have to bust your butt at work, and go back to school while your friends are making cash. That\'s what I\'m doing now.
To each there own, but if I were you I would make the best decision for my future.

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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273068989

Take the financial firm job and bartend on the weekend if you really wanted to. This way you have access to the unlimited pussy lol. Trust me, im 32 and in a stable career that pays really well, and im constantly bailing out my better looking, broke, no career to speak of best bud.

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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273069802

I concur with BigMan. I have owned, worked and built restaurants and bars and all they do is make you a vampire. You party all night, sleep all day. You have lots of fun, with lots of women but that will get old. Take the career path, be a bartender on the side, have your colleagues come visit you and enjoy spending the tips they leave you. luck.

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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273071461

Thanks guys,

@thedude, I can completely relate. In all honesty me 2 years ago wouldn\'t have even considered a path like this. I was in a 5 year relationship and only wanted the absolute best for my future with my girlfriend. Then after she left everything changed. I got depressed went on a huge alcohol binge and slept with a ton of women.

Now, I am out of the depression and I hardly drink, BUT I still like to sleep around and to be honest that and the cash are the two biggest motivators.

But I don\'t want to end up in my mid 30s just bartending at some local pub or something trying to make ends meet.

@Bigman, reminds me of that movie that came out last summer with Ryan Reynolds called \"The Change Up\".

@gunnagetbig, That is also an idea... this new place is a Friday and Saturday night only kind of place, so I would only bartend on weekends. If I was strong willed enough I could try to manage both. One thing to consider though is how a financial firm would feel about one of their guys bartending at a club... not so much a conflict of interest but more of an image issue.

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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273071485

Taking both jobs isn\'t necessarily a bad idea... even if its just for a few months... the financial firm jobs are part time (full time minus 2 or 4 hours... so they don\'t have to classify you as full time...) to start anyway.

Best of both worlds? Or recipe to self destruction with stress?

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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273073574

Do both. You\'re young and it won\'t be that hard. If it gets to be a grind, you can let the bartending go and stay focused on your career. This will give you the bartending experience to back and dabble later if you decide you\'re social life isn\'t hot enough in the your career job. Have fun - this is a fun period of your life. New career, no school, lots of babes, etc... Enjoy it brother!

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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273074274

I agree with Big John

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Need advice... What should I do?? 12 years 7 months ago #1273084907

@Sizemic

Good!! Take your time young man! Have your fun and find your perfect mate in the process. They usually sneak up on you. I\'m still very hung-up on my ex, but also on another. It\'s a terrible journey.

Best of luck with your business decisions.

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