Hi
Your situation kind of resonates with me, not completely though. Here are my two cents.
I am a divorced male 42 years, non Caucasian, living in a North american city. After being single at 39 ,early years of online dating was nothing great. I always had a attractive face,witty and confident with verbal/mental game but I guess my external appearance was not on point. I mainly date online so images are all they look at.
Last one year I have lost 10 percent of body fat, in good shape and developed a good facial hair, built a custom wardrobe. Hired a professional photographer and shot few decent images. I tested the one I liked best in fotofeeler for dating and got 94% attractiveness score from 40 women under 35.
Once I created profile in two sites, the response has been overwhelming. I am yet to get time to meet all those who are interested to meet up..thats not bragging just facts. I slept with a mid twenty polish-Canadian girl, though the sex was good..nothing mind-blowing.
I am 5.25 in length and after one round
PMMA at 4.5 in
Girth.
After that long background, going back to your choices.
1.I hear lig cut comes with risk of penetration angle changing downwards. I have done some reading and I think for a female a highly
Erect penis is a turn on like perky tits for us. If I was you..I would try stretching(long and slow) for six months first. An all day stretcher that\'s comfortable for 16 hours a day for 6 months.
2. I have had six sessions of shock wave, though I didnt have ED. It has definitely improved my
Erection strength and frequency. Due to extra blood flow my penis feels heavy most of the time and hangs better.
3.For sexual pleasure of females, it has been said many times that
Girth and performance comes first. The vaginal nerves and clitoris are located on the walls, not at he deeper tip of it.
I would definitely get
Girth enhancement by one of the methods(fat/filler) based on your risk/reward appetite.