TOPIC: Really Hurt !!!!

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@ Skeptical One

I went and adjusted my messenger preference , thank you for the tip .

@ dirk dangler thank you for the advice I can surely use it . One thing though I always been unselfish in the bed room and really hold my own . Just the thought of having a small penis is ing me . What\'s worst having a botch penile procedure or having a little Dick ?

I know I\'m emotional right now but after that small dick comment I feel in my that PMMA is my only option.

I tried to measure myself again but no luck . My head is all screwed up to get an Erection. This chick really got in my head big time. I really don\'t know what to think of it. I mean I had some girls in the pass say I was big even though I always thought otherwise. I don\'t get it . Here are my past stats BPEL 6 .70 INCHES if I press really hard it\'s 7 inches . Not to sure about the Girth . It always looked skinny to me .

Hahaha okay i see, I thought you were referring to penis length in inches

My bad, that wasn\'t clear,

I got rejected a lot by women because of my short height (Small) In which I would receive similar comments like warrior received in an \"out of the blue\" way. When my confidence what high I would try and turn it around and sleep with them.

That\'s my height. 5 feet 7 inches.

Dirk Dangler, I\'m a little confused, you said your small, 5.7 is not small, that\'s average.

@ warriorswarlord

One thing to keep in mind when things like this happen it can resonate to our core being because we associate being \"small\" with loneliness which is really scary.

It\'s important to understand this because it not the alleged \"small penis\" that freaks us out but the idea of being alone. The \"small penis\" is just circumstance, if it wasn\'t the penis, it would be something else. When you can see that as the core issue are then able to see all the options available to move past the root of the issue.

I\'m not saying to not do PE, but as CPW said, don\'t do it when you are emotionally charged up.

I\'m curious what happened after that event. Did you guys still hook up? What she said was a highly unusual comment. It\'s so rude that either she\'s a sociopath (in which case walk away anyway) or she is testing you. I can\'t qualify that last idea, but women do strange things to fuck with men.

For example I\'m small 5\'7\" I had alot of rejection (perceived) and It fucked me up. After a while I was so low about it I gave up, meaning I didn\'t care enough to even acknowledge negative comments I experienced, more importantly I no longer believed any of them so I stopped feeding it.

It gave me a strange confidence where I would push back a little and tease the women who would make such comments. Surprisingly the opposite happened where I slept with a few of them (not all) but it certainly changed my perspective.

Few things Ive learned... (take it or leave it)

Don\'t always take women\'s comments at face value or to to . They are always 2+ moves ahead in their own chess game.

Just because a man has a \"smaller\" penis doesn\'t mean that they don\'t want to or wont fuck you. Sex is more complex than just physical surface contact. And even if it was I would then learn how to get really good at certain techniques and learn to be good at sex. (be humble)

Unless your penis is abnormally small, you will get laid more by focusing on the many other things that fulfill and turn on women rather than keeping the same mentality but with a larger unit.


All that being said it would be nice to be larger, hence why I\'m on PB but I wouldn\'t assume it will be a life changing experience, (I could be wrong) but more importantly I wouldn\'t go into it with that expectation.

Herbert West
I\'m not really sure I\'ve measured the correct way .

@ warriorswarlordWhat\'s your stats?

she\'s only been with less then a handfull of guys . she said I was the biggest and that I was the only one to hit her cervix. but like I said I dont think she really knows the difference .

u can\'t be to bad if u had sex with a women who was tight in the passed,

CPW thanks but I feel like I really need to get this done . I\'ve always felt and looked small . Her comments just solidified what I always knew .

That coworker is a total loser. Don\'t do anything until you figure out what\'s what. Just because some rude chick tells you some crap is no reason to do anything. I feel for you bro but seriously let it chill for a while. Do more research. Your size is probably fine.