I usually stay out of these spats that spring up every now and then on this board, but I felt the need to say something here. Beast, I admit to agreeing with your stance about selfish posters. But ultimately, you and I are wrong about this. James should feel perfectly free to post any question on here. I\'m not religious but there\'s a good analogy here. Imagine Beast that you and I are devout attenders of a church and have always done everything right in life. Now imagine James, who\'s never gone to church, finally decides to attend a sermon just because something bad happened in his life. Again this is just an analogy, but the point is that we should welcome everyone who wants to contribute, because it helps the ultimate outcome of the board with more information. You & I, who haven\'t had the procedure, but who have contributed much more to the board than James, may ultimately come across his post and find it helpful.
And James, I know it\'s been brought up here before by others who feel that they\'ve been maligned, but there really is no private club here. Surely there\'s a sense of fraternity here that sometimes creates bonds between members, but we\'re all just here to help each other out. Any time that I\'ve been PMd I\'ve answered right away, and any time that I\'ve had a question, members have joined in to help. We all have different things to contribute, and in some cases, areas of expertise. Bottom line is, don\'t sweat the negativity. Keep asking, keep contributing and stay positive. If you do, you may just get the answers and the outcome you seek. Good luck.