TOPIC: Just saying Hi, New to this forum.....

Hi everyone,

I\'m so grateful to find this forum, I\'ve strolled through the various topics which look very formative and look forward to my research. I\'m 32 years of age, been in a relationship for 10 years, married with a healthy sex life!

However I\'ve never been satisfied with my size and this has been the case since hitting puberty. Few embarrassing moments in my youth ( getting changed in the school changing rooms and people laughing at my manhood!, using the urinals and a older friend walking in to use the next urinal, laughing and saying OMG you have a maggot penis, etc etc.) my other youth memory was when I use to get changed at my football club and a couple of older chaps just had massive dicks. I didn\'t know at the time there was showers and growers, I use to think blimey they must be humongous when Erect!

This has left me with a complex and even to this day I do my best to avoid using changing rooms and public toilets etc etc. Even if I just need a piss, I will wait until the main toilet is free so I don\'t have to use the urinals.

I\'ve never had any complaints from my wife and from my previous encounters before our relationship. My wife thinks I\'m being ridiculous, it just doesn\'t make any sense to her. What did it for me was when a female friend of ours had a boob job, & instantly she was so much more confident and happier.

This got me thinking, accept the things you can\'t change but do something about the stuff you can. So my journey begins.

007jw wrote: Hi everyone, I\'m so grateful to find this forum, I\'ve strolled through the various topics which look very formative and look forward to my research. I\'m 32 years of age, been in a relationship for 10 years, married with a healthy sex life! However I\'ve never been satisfied with my size and this has been the case since hitting puberty. Few embarrassing moments in my youth ( getting changed in the school changing rooms and people laughing at my manhood!, using the urinals and a older friend walking in to use the next urinal, laughing and saying OMG you have a maggot penis, etc etc.) my other youth memory was when I use to get changed at my football club and a couple of older chaps just had massive dicks. I didn\'t know at the time there was showers and growers, I use to think blimey they must be humongous when Erect! This has left me with a complex and even to this day I do my best to avoid using changing rooms and public toilets etc etc. Even if I just need a piss, I will wait until the main toilet is free so I don\'t have to use the urinals. I\'ve never had any complaints from my wife and from my previous encounters before our relationship. My wife thinks I\'m being ridiculous, it just doesn\'t make any sense to her. What did it for me was when a female friend of ours had a boob job, & instantly she was so much more confident and happier. This got me thinking, accept the things you can\'t change but do something about the stuff you can. So my journey begins.

I can really empathize with this part. My wife was like it\'s fine just the way it is. She never complained, maybe she wanted an extra Inch length to make other positions easier but Girth she would never say anything. My wife got a breast job done about 5 years ago. I knew her A cup really bothered her, more for the reason that clothes never fit her at all. Once she got them done her insecurity pretty much went away and she feels confident. She can pick clothes she likes not just ones that fit her.

But after my first round of PMMA and the first time we had sex, she said if I knew it would feel like this before I might have been more supportive of getting it done awhile ago. She loves how it feels a little more snug now, she has more feeling I have more feeling so it\'s a win win for both of us. She never made me feel inadequate but after our first sexual encounter after me having the PMMA done, I could tell by her sounds, body, motions and such she was very, very glad we got it done. It\'s only enhanced our sex life and our marriage as a whole. I feel better, so she feels better and it\'s one thing less to worry about myself.

007jw wrote: Thanks to everyone for your replies. Blimey Hoddle, thanks for sharing that with me. Sounds awful, hope you got everything sorted out in the end. Yes I had read in the web that the V/Y incision can cause bad scaring and dog ear appearance. But wondered if this was due to being unfortunate as to Roberto using this technique for the last 20 years. Also the andrology international London also use FFT for Girth enhancement, as they think it offers better results than biological scaffolding. Hoddle did you lose any stability or angle once the lig was cut? Hunky dory glad you didn\'t loose any stability or angle for yourself. As stated before so glad to find this forum, to speak to people who have had first hand experience. Plus an understanding of the situation. Hidden/Hunkydory what would you recommend for someone like myself? Thanks in advance.....

They probably forgot to mention they can\'t get the scaffolds anymore! That\'s why they prefer FFT all of a sudden. For a decade the Perovic team, which Djakovic was part of, were very against FFT and pro scaffolds. I\'ve had both by the way. I gained nothing from the scaffolds.

I didn\'t lose any stability of angle.

I\'ve never really understood why the Viels persist with the V/Y incision. The last guy I head of who has lengthening with them didn\'t like his scar.

But I do know of 2 guys who were happy with their FFT results with Roberto Viel.

Thanks to everyone for your replies.

Blimey Hoddle, thanks for sharing that with me. Sounds awful, hope you got everything sorted out in the end. Yes I had read in the web that the V/Y incision can cause bad scaring and dog ear appearance. But wondered if this was due to being unfortunate as to Roberto using this technique for the last 20 years. Also the andrology international London also use FFT for Girth enhancement, as they think it offers better results than biological scaffolding.

Hoddle did you lose any stability or angle once the lig was cut?
Hunky dory glad you didn\'t loose any stability or angle for yourself.

As stated before so glad to find this forum, to speak to people who have had first hand experience. Plus an understanding of the situation. Hidden/Hunkydory what would you recommend for someone like myself?

Thanks in advance.....

I had FFT and lengthening with Roberto Viel. I wouldn\'t recommend it. He uses the V/Y incision for lengthening and this is notorious for producing bad scarring, which I had. The issue\'s with FFT you seem to be aware of. I had the remaining fatty tissue cut out and this caused even greater problems.

Also, the problem with FFT is that the fat absorbs unevenly and it frequently clumps. It is not a great option.

007jw wrote: Even if I just need a piss, I will wait until the main toilet is free so I don\'t have to use the urinals.

yes i have been here too. i once held onto a piss so long that i pissed myself after i got a spasm in my stomach (or bladder). that was about 10-11 hous

I had the lig. surgery - but not by them. I didn\'t lose any stability or angle. Almost 20 years now - but don\'t expect to see an gains Erect from the surgery. It is more for making your Flaccid closer to your Erect length.

My research has so far come up with 2 surgeons in the uk, both offering penis lengthing through the release of the penile suspensory ligament and increase in Girth through the transfering of patients fat to the penis shaft. The surgeons are Dr Roberto Viel and Dr Nenad Djakovic, can any members add any light to these 2 surgeons or better still have had any surgery done by them?

My concern with the cutting of the suspensory ligament is that you can loose stability and angle when Erect. Plus with the extra risk of losing length due to the penis retracting! Both of these scare the shit out of me as due to my size now I simply cannot afford to loose any length. My other concern is that if I manage to get a longer Dick but then I struggle with the angle whilst making love, well, my wife wouldn\'t be to pleased! With the fat transfer, it is widely known that the body will re-absorb over a period of time. I have been reassured that there maybe some reabsorbtion but there will be permanent Girth gain, however there has been several articles stating that all the fat will be re-absorbed after about 2 years. That seems like a lot of money, hassle & stress to only get a benefit for 2 years, I was hoping for a permanent gain. Any thoughts or experience on this would be greatly appreciated

My current stats are the following :

FL 9cm
FG 9cm

EL 15cm
EG 11.5cm

Very interesting majk1, I was kinda of wondering whether this would be the case with my wife and I! I hope so happy for you. We have a very good relationship and I\'m very much the alpha male, with her stating why can\'t you just be happy with what you got!! She really doesn\'t get it. I\'m fed up with feeling ashamed of this & having to avoid situations on a daily basis or being embarrassed when certain situations occur.

I just don\'t feel like a proper bloke, the lengths I go to (no pun intended!) to avoid such situations. I\'m in good shape, do lots of sport, football, boxing etc, fairly good looking, been told I have a good character and a fun person to be around with, but little do they really know of my ashamed embarrassing secret. The insecurity this creates is quite shocking, & yet most people who know me say I\'m a very confident person. Years of practice to hide your real feelings I suppose.

I\'ve had friends who have struggled with ill health and this too makes it very hard, am I being selfish and greedy?
Plus if I go for surgery and this turns out bad, how & what would the wife say & do, ummmm, who knows? I\'m doing this in secret as when we have discussed the enhancement she has threatened to leave me...... Still I continue to weigh up the risks and the potential gains or not....

Good to know that you too hoddle10 didn\'t lose any stability or angle. Shocked & surprised that with scaffolds you didn\'t gain anything!
Yes I noted that with London Andrology, but then Roberto also doesn\'t offer this technique as far as I\'m aware! I am aware that the lig cut only offers extra length in Flaccid form. I currently have a Foreskin & would like to keep this as many females in the past plus my wife say I have a good looking penis, just fucking small, lol. Does this add to complications?

Does anyone know a surgeon offering PMMA in the UK?