TOPIC: Is the 6" EG Goal truly ideal?

eqstudent wrote:

8by8 wrote: ...It almost killed me when she saw my Flaccid of 6.5\" long and about 6\" around the first time when sneaking into the shower at her place, and she said it was average...

i could definitely see myself becoming a surgery/supplement addict, after stepping into the porn world, on a quest to be bigger than mandingo and Napier. I\'ve always been a competitive perfectionist, and I want to be the biggest for my current GF, and I guess the biggest period. It\'s an ovsession cast upon me by society, and I\'m going to attempt to beat it at it\'s own game, not settle for not being the biggest.
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So you have a GF who has a vjj that is so large she could perform in a TJ donkey show without breaking a sweat. This is not typical of most women.

You are then somehow placing blame on your desire to have the biggest Dick on society. That is your hangup, it has nothing to do with society.

Bottom line, you and maybe your GF don\'t think 6\" is large but the link SO posted is correct, for most women 6\" EG will be much bigger than they would find comfortable.

As much as I relish the anonymity of the internet for discussion of taboos, and the relative freedom and ease of such convos, here is where the internet\'s anonymity is a downside. I resent the utter lack of class with you speaking about my GF. She\'s a truly wonderful girl, great socially, morally, and intellectually. We\'re both actually kind of conservative (by 2012 standards and our age group) in the areas of promiscuity. She\'s just had some very tall, athletic boyfriends who had very large endowments. You\'d never dare say such a grotesque thing in my presence. I hope you have more reservation in real life.

And to stay on topic, i disagree that most woem nfind 6\" Girth uncomfortable. It\'s far more common for a woman to find over 6.5\"-7\" of rigidly Erect length uncomfortable in my experience, and all of the girls I\'ve dated in my my life have been between the ages of 15-27, and not overly promiscuous. Only one woman, 32, who had children, and her Girth capacity and internal taper was almost exactly like my current GF, only about 1.75\" shorter. For her, 7\" length was too much (even fully aroused), but 6.5\" of rockhard Girth wasn\'t too much at all.

In my experience, 6.25\"-6.5\" Girth isn\'t prohibitively large like some think it is, even for relatively inexperienced college girls. It\'s a full stretch, but not truly painful. Legitimately, prohibitively, and painfully large i think begins around 6.75\" Girth for most college age/20-something girls. Alot of my tighter gf, I could not wear a cockring to fully engorge myself to a 110% EQ (especially engorging my spongiosum), otherwise it would be prohibitivly thick.

Girth is easier to adapt to than excess length, for most girls, and most guys under 7\" length don\'t really know that most girls don\'t want more length than 7\"

eqstudent wrote: Bottom line, you and maybe your GF don\'t think 6\" is large but the link SO posted is correct, for most women 6\" EG will be much bigger than they would find comfortable.

For me, it is not twisted, yet I understand but respectfully disagree...

How can I NOT feel the bigger is better (to a certain extent of course) when this happens: I know this girl for 4 years now, she has had my Dick before and after the implant and the PMMA...(not showing off here), but she used to come ONCE in about 20 mins with my regular Dick, now with my PMMA Dick she comes three times in 20 mins. How can I take that any other way? than bigger Girth is better? The only variable in this equation is Girth size, same I, same her, same vagina but bigger Dick. So, in my mind, I did the right thing (but I went thru hell and back with the implant if you read my thread)...I would never even think of going back to a 5\" Girth Dick.

Am I in the Matrix then?...you know, may be I am, may be we all are!

For clarifications to readers: Your experience WILL vary and yours may be worse, much much worse. You take your own chances.....I was lucky!

A womans Va-J-J stretches to make way for babies heads. If you actually spend the time to get them aroused then there is no way in hell 6\'\" is too big.

I had this conversation with my wife the other day and I said to her that I have always felt small because no woman has ever not been able to take me all in. I\'ve never gotten comments about my size.

Now my wife says because I am so tall that its likely the girls I have been with knew what they were getting into beforehand, and wouldnt have taken me on if they werent prepared. I say its because I am hung like a budgee.

8by8 wrote: I resent the utter lack of class with you speaking about my GF. She\'s a truly wonderful girl, great socially, morally, and intellectually. We\'re both actually kind of conservative (by 2012 standards and our age group) in the areas of promiscuity. She\'s just had some very tall, athletic boyfriends who had very large endowments. You\'d never dare say such a grotesque thing in my presence. I hope you have more reservation in real life.

Lets see. You have come here and described the sizes of several of her past boyfriends down to the 1/4 Inch so she must have measured them! A slight roundup yields 10x7! A 10x7 is larger than almost every single straight porn star and is vanishingly rare.

You have posted that at 8x6.5 \"She gets hit the way she likes when I hold her legs behind her head and dig.\" and \"I think 7.5EG is ideal, but I think my GF is way past what the normal chick is lol \" and \"And my length is just barely enough to hit her deep\"

You are upset because I said she has a very large vjj? Please.

LongDongSilver wrote: A womans Va-J-J stretches to make way for babies heads. If you actually spend the time to get them aroused then there is no way in hell 6\'\" is too big.

If you really understood the changes a woman\'s body goes through over 9 months to prepare to have a baby you would never equate it with having sex.

For a start research \"Relaxin\"!

Wow Eqstudent you really are a condescending a**hole

Guys chill, you all make good points.

Childbirth and sex are not comparable, but the common denominator is that the vagina can accommodate with proper & adequate foreplay, lubrication, etc.

8by8\'s experiences as well as the experiences of other men here demonstrate something more telling about \"ideal\" Girth: the variation in vaginal size. For some women, 5.5\" is ideal, irrespective of how much they can stretch out with time, while others can take a monster. Some girls would consider sex completely incompatible if you exceed 6\", while others crave it.

If such an \"ideal\" size existed, it would likely have to be conducted by a survey with a very large sample size of random women (old, young, tall, short, fat, and skinny). Something similar to what EQStudent\'s g.f. is doing, but even more comprehensive with a significantly larger sample size. The size revealed by that study may imply the most Girth a man would want without becoming prohibitive of sex for a good percentage of women.

As of now, it\'s speculation based purely on anecdotal evidence, but makes for good discussion. That being said, let\'s keep it civil gentlemen.

I didnt say childbirth was relative to sex, I was merely pointing out that the vagina has the capacity to stretch. A 6\" penis is a far cry from a babies head.

That being said, at approximately 8.75 el and 6.1 meg, with 16 partners, getting all my \"width\" in has never been an issue. And only once has my length made sex unenjoyable.

The depth of the vagina can, when sexually excited and with proper lubrication, elongate from the Average of 3 inches up to 7 inches and some times even up to 10\"....So, Most women can easily take 6-7\" long penises and even more.

upon sexual arousal, the cervix actually ascend upward elongating the vaginal canal to accommodate the penis. IF a woman is not sexually aroused enough, a longer penis can it the cervix and cause discomfort.

LongDongSilver wrote: Wow Eqstudent you really are a condescending a**hole

I guess it is name calling time. I will pass since your posts speak for themselves.

If you are going to make posts comparing giving birth to having sex you will be called out. It is just plain stupid.

As far as women having difficulty with girths under 6\", there has been several posts from members the most recent:

CupandCakes wrote: Sex: So... I kind of regret having sex with my girlfriend on Day 5. I was still pretty swollen, but I was just so turned on I couldnt help it. I was around 5.8~ at the time, and it hurt her really bad. It slightly tore the bottom part of her vagina. But I cant help but think that she might want that size again haha. Girth at 5.8 felt amazing, and competely filled her up. Not sure if 5.5 is going to do the job at this point. Especially since its only going down from here. Haven\'t been able to have sex with her since that day, due to our busy schedules. But hopefully it she\'ll enjoy 5.5 or less more.

This has been something that has amazed me a bit. The recurring statements from some guys here that 5.5 or 5.7 Girth dicks are tearing girls up. I am outing myself a bit here but I have had over 200 sexual partners and not one single girl has been unable or unwilling to take my 6.2 Girth Dick. Some have had orgasms from the Girth and length of my penis, and some have seemed completely unfazed. As previously stated, I have had responses everywhere from \"wow, biggest Cock i\'ve ever had\" to \"your penis is very average, but a little thicker\" never the less, none of the girls have had significant problems taking my Cock. And so there is no confusion, I have fucked 18 year old girls that were under 5 feet tall and weighed 90 pounds to a 55 year old grandmother.. (dont ask, drunk on a cruise..)

If you are tearing pussies up at 5.5 Erect Girth, I think chances are you need to reflect a bit on your skills when it comes to foreplay.

And as a last thing, I have seen a trend here where people have no problems to express very harsh or demeaning opinions of women/peoples girlfriends or wives... I think the comments that were made regarding 8x8 girlfriend were inappropriate.

best,
Blitz

I actually think part of the reason we are seeing so many guys experiences contradicting others, could be partly down to a mental issue women have and it\'s to do with length. Most guys with naturally big girths tend to have longer dicks as well. When a woman see\'s a big thick Cock, often they probably decide it will be uncomfortable before they\'ve even tried it and thus tense up. But a thicker penis on shorter length wont be anywhere near as intimidating to a woman. They are thus more relaxed and enjoy the Girth. Many of our members have shorter, but thicker penis\'s and report women having no problems. It\'s just a theory, but maybe there is something in it. Everyone is in agreement that a woman needs to be relaxed to take a bigger Girth and seeing a huge Cock in both length and Girth must be slightly nerve racking, even if it is alluring.

Of course another obvious reason is how sexy the guy is. We can talk about penis size until the cows come home, but it\'s never going to be as important as being handsome and in great shape. If I sleep with an ugly, not sexy girl, she could have the tightest vagina in the world, but I could pump away for hours without cumming. Yet a stunning and sexy girl could have a huge vagina, but I could still pop before even entering. We should never lose sight of the fact that the brain is the biggest erogenous zone. Often it\'s almost convenient for us to blame penis size, as we don\'t want to fact thinking that our wives or GF\'s past lovers simply turned them on more than we do.

Quote by H10: \"We should never lose sight of the fact that the brain is the biggest erogenous zone.\"

Spot on...

And with women, it is their emotions that takes over. If a woman is into you, you can have a micro penis and she\'ll still climax!