TOPIC: The perfect size?

Hey guys,

So I thought I\'d share some advice on my experience with my new size.

Right now I\'m at 6\" girth after 3 surgeries. This is about an inch and a half gain in girth. I found that with the new found size there are some draw backs I didn\'t think about.

Pros:
What I\'ve noticed is a huge improvement during sexual intercourse. It\'s so much easier to make my partners orgasm. Sex overall is better and just plain fun now. This has led to a stronger confidence and ability to pull in women.

Women seem to be willing to put up with more shit from me then usual and not saying anything about it. If you\'re good in bed it seems it\'s worth it to them to deal with BS. Not saying I\'m an asshole or anything but sometimes I just want my way and get it.

Cons:
So what I\'ve noticed that with a larger sized penis, women have trouble with condoms. They dry out very quickly and need a lot of lube. Because of this and because women enjoy the size so much almost all of my partners ask me about half way through sex to remove the condom. This is new in my experience and it\'s very very hard to say no, knowing that the sex will get better for both of us. If you\'ve read my other post you know this has caused me to go get tested and receive my first STD treatment ( Nothing serious ).

Another thing you need to realize is if you\'re into smaller women most of them will have trouble with your size. The smaller the body the harder it will be. I\'ve found that between petite women and curvier ones, sex is better with the curvier ones because they can take more aggressive sex which I\'ve been preferring lately. This is actually changing my taste in women. I used to be particular to shorties but now I\'ve been eye\'ing larger more shapely women.

I\'ve never been a player or an doush bag that toots and boots. I usually only have partners with whom\'s company I enjoy. What I\'ve noticed is even though I\'ve been clear about not wanting anything serious, women seem to want to force me into something serious. I\'ve broken one person\'s twice ( and she kept coming back ) and now I\'m realizing that another person I\'m seeing is testing me to slip into a relationship ( Leaving clothing personal stuff around ). This is new to me and I\'m learning how to deal with having a friendly relationship. Have a larger size means a change in how you handle relationships. We know size matters and effects the scale on how a women judges you. When you go up in size the scale changes in your favor but you need to know how to deal with the women in your life.

The more girth you\'re looking to gain the more surgeries you\'re going to need. I\'ve had 3 of them so far and I will need another touch-up soon to really polish off the tip. This is actually caused me to hold off and lose some relationships where I don\'t want to have sex until it\'s finished so it doesn\'t seem different to them. Most women I don\'t think would notice but there\'s one person I\'ve been really trying to have something with that has a very tight vagina. She actually noticed something was weird after my second surgery but didn\'t say anything. I did see her kinda of twitch when I\'d go in deep because there was a big ridge at the time.

So I\'m really posting this article for the folks that are looking to go way over 6\". Please read above and understand what changes you may encounter with a 6.5\"+ girth. I know of a few friends who have that naturally and they have never had a serious relationship with anyone. They are sexual tools that women use them for. They also can\'t ever really be with anyone small or not a royal slut. Just a draw back for them they will never be able to get over.

bighat wrote: So here is the thing. If you have 5\" EL can you go to 5.5\" EG and still look aesthetically reasonable? I\'ve take a look at some, err, women\'s sex toys and a super nice model to me is 7\" by 5.5, but in reality a good 2\" can\'t be \"used\" since a base? I\'m wondering if the limiting factor is NOT lenght/Girth ratio (somewhat arbitrary ratio as the two number are not related per se), but the glans. IF you are at a 4.5\" glans there has to be a point where you can\'t seriously look to go thicker, right?

There is a point at which your Girth may look too fat for the length and/or glans. We call it dwarfing and I know that Dr. C does his best to create the best aesthetic result with each penis type.
I, for one, am willing to sacrifice (minor) aesthetics to achieve desired Girth goals, so I may face some glans dwarfing, or a stockier appearing penis. I hope, however, that I may be able to gain some length in the coming months to improve my chances at obtaining a more aesthetic outcome when reaching my Girth goals.

So here is the thing. If you have 5\" EL can you go to 5.5\" EG and still look aesthetically reasonable? I\'ve take a look at some, err, women\'s sex toys and a super nice model to me is 7\" by 5.5, but in reality a good 2\" can\'t be \"used\" since a base? I\'m wondering if the limiting factor is NOT lenght/Girth ratio (somewhat arbitrary ratio as the two number are not related per se), but the glans. IF you are at a 4.5\" glans there has to be a point where you can\'t seriously look to go thicker, right?

I\'m guilty of the same mentality. I stayed with a teenage swimsuit model when I was 17 years old even though she told me outright that she would be leaving me when her boyfriend got out of jail. She had a ER body and even though she was conceited and treated me like chopped liver, I put up with it just to be with her. I was also a rather shy teenager so it was a huge boost to my self esteem.

There will always be the chance of incompatibility between a man and a woman but typically only due to extreme differences (unusually small vagina with an unusually large penis.) Sometimes medical reasons (vaginismus or vestibulitis) or an abnormally developed vagina can preclude intercourse. For most women, a Girth of 6 inches fits just fine when the woman is sexually excited and well lubricated. Beyond six inches is really rare and can be painful for some women. I\'m in agreeance with stillwantmore on this forefront. Also, my wife verified that many of her friends are still with the same asshol3 simply because he\'s well endowed and good in the sack.

I really don\'t see how 6\" is \"too big\" for some of you guys saying it is. I\'m a hair over 6\" in shaft Girth myself. Never had some of the issues some of you claim to.

Its the same within the gay men community.

Quote: \" women will let a lot slide for a big Dick. \"....

True, most women will rather put up with a lot of shit than have that \" big Dick\" go away to another pussy!!!

emptyyogurtcup wrote: I know of a few friends who have that naturally and they have never had a serious relationship with anyone. They are sexual tools that women use them for. They also can\'t ever really be with anyone small or not a royal slut. Just a draw back for them they will never be able to get over.

Overall that was a great post, EYC. Not all of it was entirely true, though. I\'m one of those who was born with a natural 6.5\"+ Girth. I have enjoyed a great long term relationship with a woman who has very small pussy, nor is she a slut. But overall you nailed it, women will let a lot slide for a big Dick.

Good to know! I\'ve always sought Girth to alleviate one primary concern: if somehow things didn\'t go as planned in bed, I\'d hate to attribute it to something I had no control over (size).
The goal is to obtain a size (manually and/or surgically) so that if things didn\'t go as planned in bed, I would know that my size was more than satisfactory, and that the problems could be attributed to things I had control over (i.e. stamina, EQ, technique, etc), things I could work on improving.
After reviewing many forums, magazine articles, etc, etc, I\'ve come to think 5.5\" is more than adequate, but for many of us (including myself), 6 seems to be the magic number.
Anything larger than 6 is probably best suited for long-term relationships (marriages) where both partners know what they are getting into. Contrary to what some have said about women being able to take many sizes (which can be true), they prefer not to be torn apart by a soda can when they can have something more \"just right-ish.\" We got to balance the needs of our (potential/future) partners with the primeval yearning for a bigger wang!
Thanks for your input EYC!

I guess the drawback of having a bigger penis is the fact that you will attract size-queens more often. So be it and lets just learn from that new experience. But dont marry one! LOL

You\'re living the dream my friend. I hope to be at your Girth (and hopefully length also, if the manual PE gives me the results I\'m hoping for) this time next year.

Skeptical One wrote:

bighat wrote: So here is the thing. If you have 5\" EL can you go to 5.5\" EG and still look aesthetically reasonable? I\'ve take a look at some, err, women\'s sex toys and a super nice model to me is 7\" by 5.5, but in reality a good 2\" can\'t be \"used\" since a base? I\'m wondering if the limiting factor is NOT lenght/Girth ratio (somewhat arbitrary ratio as the two number are not related per se), but the glans. IF you are at a 4.5\" glans there has to be a point where you can\'t seriously look to go thicker, right?

There is a point at which your Girth may look too fat for the length and/or glans. We call it dwarfing and I know that Dr. C does his best to create the best aesthetic result with each penis type.
I, for one, am willing to sacrifice (minor) aesthetics to achieve desired Girth goals, so I may face some glans dwarfing, or a stockier appearing penis. I hope, however, that I may be able to gain some length in the coming months to improve my chances at obtaining a more aesthetic outcome when reaching my Girth goals.

Same here. I\'ve never totally understood the men who find non surgical PE and expect to see truly large gains, with zero change in the appearance of their penis. Stretch marks? Darkening? Gosh! LOL.