TOPIC: Rant about ‘lazy’ PM’s // PM’s being detrimental to idea of Forum Rant

This post is mostly so I can send many people who send me PM’s the link to this post here.

I just got a pm, and it’s a typical one.
“What’s your Erect and Girth now ????
Is the sex Better now do they moan more with the bigger Girth or the same ?”

Context:
My size – ‘Erect and Girth’ – is under *every single post of mine*, in the signature.
I basically only had 2 active threads in the last months – one about pain after PMMA and one being my journal detailing my PMMA operation. The link to my journal is also *in my signature under every post of mine*.
The last post in my journal was a 1300 word detailed Essay about how women reacted to the new Cock. Also in the top was written my Erect Girth, and also of course it was written again in the signature.

I judge the author of this pm (and many of them are similar) is very lazy.
Imho PM’s are very often detrimental to the Forum idea. I think the idea of a forum is people report openly results and questions, and one post can be read by thousands of people over the next years. It’s creating something valueable together. I post my report, others do too, I can read hundreds of other reports – this info would be worth thousands of dollars to me.

PM is one post to one person that then is then never ever read again. I would go as far as say every single PM instead of a Post is basically a Loss for the Forum. Others could have the same question and same problem, but it is only answered once for one person in secret, then the wisdom/information.. forever gone and lost.
I also don’t understand shyness in a basically 100% anonymous internet forum where you can name yourself 'McDuckface756' and not say anything about yourself at all, imo grow some Balls, even if you would post your name picture and address *noone* would give a single fuck.

Instead of sending me a PM I want you to:
- Ask me the question in a Thread of mine where it already fits (not just the last random thread you have opened with me, eg asking if I am circumsized in my pain thread)
Or: you have a journal and post the question to everybody and pm me to please answer it there
- Better before do a quick check if the information is already written on the forum -> click on the Author name and see the last started threads, basically nearly everybody has a progress journal with all basic info about himself (how big before and after procedure eg)
- If you are wondering about something specific, make a thread about it (eg how is getting PMMA when one is uncircumsized?) and if you want me to answer that send me a quick pm with the link. Better do a forum search first to see if such a thread already exists and read that first and then bump it up and post there.

- I realize sometimes PM’s are useful. And if I answered you, don’t feel attacked with this thread cause I valued your PM (and if I just answered you to write the question in the forum I found your pm not suitable for pm).

Wow.

Anyway, I just tell them to use the forum search. Or ignore them if they seem extra dense.

I think theres a option to turn off your PM's if it bothers you so much. People are just nervous about the procedure and want to know first hand. You can also choose to ignore it. I wish someone would send me a link after asking them a specific private message. I still get messages 8 years later from gaining a inch in length from the original forum asking me how I did it or how to start etc. even when I still had the link in my signature. I'm not gonna be rude to them because I answered the question a bunch of times before. I'll either answer or choose to ignore.It's pretty simple. It probably took you longer to write this essay, than it would to answer a simple question. I swear man.. Some of you guys here just grind my gears with the self importance when all you did was get something injected into your dick..... Someone is acting like a celebrity diva.. lmao.. HARD eye roll