Is the sex fulfilling and does that play a role in not worrying about the length anymore?
Sort of. On my best day, my length is average-ish. The desire for more length (for me) opens up more "sex-position" opportunities, which is important since I'm a sucker for the curvier, thick types.
No worries, however, since I've found solutions: when it comes to women who may need extra length, I simply dictate what positions take place, and they're typically pleased enough since I'm taking charge in the first place. When it comes to spinner/petite-type women, this is where I can actually feel long and it typically resolves my desire for more length. I can have it both ways.